"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Movies that have goot attraction-building convos?

Magnatolia

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 12, 2005
Messages
196
Reaction score
1
Age
43
Location
Brisbane, Australia
Hi all,

I'm looking for movie suggestions that have good conversations between a guy and girl that go well, not necessarily interested in movies that show a dj in action - there's enough of them listed on this site.

More interested in individual conversations - I always have trouble with conversations and this isn't something based on my confidence or self-esteem but more on an actual lack of knowledge on what to talk about. So looking for some good examples.

I know of the 50 first dates movie where he has to talk to her constantly. but I find a lot of conversations in movies are between people that already know each other, or they barely show any of hte conversation.

All suggestions welcome.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

War Against Betaism

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 19, 2007
Messages
1,600
Reaction score
28
Location
California
James Bond Casino Royale. The scene where Bond seduces Alex Dimitrios's wife. Bond wins Dimitrio's Aston Martin at a poker game and rolls up to pick up Solange Dimitrio whom to her surprise is James Bond instead of her husband. Bond offers her a ride anyways, she replies "I'm sorry I'm not that cruel," and as she walks away, Bond says "Perhaps you're just out of practice." He keeps good eye contact with her the whole time. Later on they're seen making out.

This is the best example of David DeAngelo's ****y and funny concept. Very ****y but also funny.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Top