"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Movies that have goot attraction-building convos?

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Magnatolia

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Hi all,

I'm looking for movie suggestions that have good conversations between a guy and girl that go well, not necessarily interested in movies that show a dj in action - there's enough of them listed on this site.

More interested in individual conversations - I always have trouble with conversations and this isn't something based on my confidence or self-esteem but more on an actual lack of knowledge on what to talk about. So looking for some good examples.

I know of the 50 first dates movie where he has to talk to her constantly. but I find a lot of conversations in movies are between people that already know each other, or they barely show any of hte conversation.

All suggestions welcome.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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James Bond Casino Royale. The scene where Bond seduces Alex Dimitrios's wife. Bond wins Dimitrio's Aston Martin at a poker game and rolls up to pick up Solange Dimitrio whom to her surprise is James Bond instead of her husband. Bond offers her a ride anyways, she replies "I'm sorry I'm not that cruel," and as she walks away, Bond says "Perhaps you're just out of practice." He keeps good eye contact with her the whole time. Later on they're seen making out.

This is the best example of David DeAngelo's ****y and funny concept. Very ****y but also funny.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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