"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Movie DJ/AFC

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I was just mostly curious, but if you would pick any movie/tv character that most resembles a don juan or an AFC, who would they be? Maybe seeing what i should strive for and stay away from will help me on my way to becoming a true DJ.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Napolean Dynamite- Not only a bad movie but the main character is an example of an over the top cartoon like representation of the worst AFC traits that could possibly be evident in any man.

Seth Gecko- Over the top DJ type character seen in the awesome vampire killin movie From Dusk Till Dawn.
 

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a don juan would be Dalton from Roadhouse

an afc would be the main character in Fever Pitch
 

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As for DJ, Tyler Durden from Fight Club, Tristan Ludlow from Legends of the Fall. Hell, probably any character played by the Pittster.
 

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DJ = William Wallace in Braveheart
AFC = Listen to just about any love song on the radio, but I'd say Jerry McGuire and his whole "You complete me" BS.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJ - Indiana Jones
AFC - Marty McFly's dad in Back to the Future
 

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DJ and AFC rolled into one: Bruce Willis in Die Hard I.

After he single-handedly saves his wife from 12 terrorists and proves himself a hero, he radios in a message saying, "I realize whats important now. I should have understood my wife more. I should be grateful for her loving a bum like me." This is literally after he has done untold acts of heroism.

Typical modern western culture: save the world, do heroic ****, then throw yourself to the floor in order to worship the vagina. Fvcking horrible.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Technical1 said:
DJ and AFC rolled into one: Bruce Willis in Die Hard I.

After he single-handedly saves his wife from 12 terrorists and proves himself a hero, he radios in a message saying, "I realize whats important now. I should have understood my wife more. I should be grateful for her loving a bum like me." This is literally after he has done untold acts of heroism.

Typical modern western culture: save the world, do heroic ****, then throw yourself to the floor in order to worship the vagina. Fvcking horrible.
Lol. Aside from that it's a great flick.

What really shocked me recently was watching "Tombstone", which I hadn't since being here. Kick-ass movie, then at the very end Kurt Russel after being the ultimate strong man turns into a total wuss, tracking down the chick who he never even kissed then telling her how he was going to basically worship her for eterntity if she'd have him. And she was kind of a tease as well. Of course in real life it worked out for them but I hope it didn't happen that way. I wonder if the producer's wife had some input into the film's ending.

Also Tao of Steve, which was basically a good movie more or less about being a DJ, then he throws it all away in the end for love. He disowns everything that got him the chick to begin with, saying that it was all crap.

I think there have to be endings like this. You wonder if the filmmakers really wanted to leave it like that.
 
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