I was just mostly curious, but if you would pick any movie/tv character that most resembles a don juan or an AFC, who would they be? Maybe seeing what i should strive for and stay away from will help me on my way to becoming a true DJ.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Napolean Dynamite- Not only a bad movie but the main character is an example of an over the top cartoon like representation of the worst AFC traits that could possibly be evident in any man.
Seth Gecko- Over the top DJ type character seen in the awesome vampire killin movie From Dusk Till Dawn.
Seth Gecko- Over the top DJ type character seen in the awesome vampire killin movie From Dusk Till Dawn.
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a don juan would be Dalton from Roadhouse
an afc would be the main character in Fever Pitch
an afc would be the main character in Fever Pitch
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As for DJ, Tyler Durden from Fight Club, Tristan Ludlow from Legends of the Fall. Hell, probably any character played by the Pittster.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
DJ - Pierce Brosnan - Thomas Crown Affair
Arizona iced tea
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afc- Dane Cook in the 2nd half of good luck chuck.
RockAndRollRefugee
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DJ - Indiana Jones
AFC - Marty McFly's dad in Back to the Future
AFC - Marty McFly's dad in Back to the Future
Technical1
Senior Don Juan
DJ and AFC rolled into one: Bruce Willis in Die Hard I.
After he single-handedly saves his wife from 12 terrorists and proves himself a hero, he radios in a message saying, "I realize whats important now. I should have understood my wife more. I should be grateful for her loving a bum like me." This is literally after he has done untold acts of heroism.
Typical modern western culture: save the world, do heroic ****, then throw yourself to the floor in order to worship the vagina. Fvcking horrible.
After he single-handedly saves his wife from 12 terrorists and proves himself a hero, he radios in a message saying, "I realize whats important now. I should have understood my wife more. I should be grateful for her loving a bum like me." This is literally after he has done untold acts of heroism.
Typical modern western culture: save the world, do heroic ****, then throw yourself to the floor in order to worship the vagina. Fvcking horrible.
In Motion
Senior Don Juan
AFC: That kid from Superbad, Michael Cera.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Lol. Aside from that it's a great flick.Technical1 said:DJ and AFC rolled into one: Bruce Willis in Die Hard I.
After he single-handedly saves his wife from 12 terrorists and proves himself a hero, he radios in a message saying, "I realize whats important now. I should have understood my wife more. I should be grateful for her loving a bum like me." This is literally after he has done untold acts of heroism.
Typical modern western culture: save the world, do heroic ****, then throw yourself to the floor in order to worship the vagina. Fvcking horrible.
What really shocked me recently was watching "Tombstone", which I hadn't since being here. Kick-ass movie, then at the very end Kurt Russel after being the ultimate strong man turns into a total wuss, tracking down the chick who he never even kissed then telling her how he was going to basically worship her for eterntity if she'd have him. And she was kind of a tease as well. Of course in real life it worked out for them but I hope it didn't happen that way. I wonder if the producer's wife had some input into the film's ending.
Also Tao of Steve, which was basically a good movie more or less about being a DJ, then he throws it all away in the end for love. He disowns everything that got him the chick to begin with, saying that it was all crap.
I think there have to be endings like this. You wonder if the filmmakers really wanted to leave it like that.