"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Movie DJ/AFC

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I was just mostly curious, but if you would pick any movie/tv character that most resembles a don juan or an AFC, who would they be? Maybe seeing what i should strive for and stay away from will help me on my way to becoming a true DJ.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Napolean Dynamite- Not only a bad movie but the main character is an example of an over the top cartoon like representation of the worst AFC traits that could possibly be evident in any man.

Seth Gecko- Over the top DJ type character seen in the awesome vampire killin movie From Dusk Till Dawn.
 

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a don juan would be Dalton from Roadhouse

an afc would be the main character in Fever Pitch
 

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As for DJ, Tyler Durden from Fight Club, Tristan Ludlow from Legends of the Fall. Hell, probably any character played by the Pittster.
 

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DJ = William Wallace in Braveheart
AFC = Listen to just about any love song on the radio, but I'd say Jerry McGuire and his whole "You complete me" BS.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ - Indiana Jones
AFC - Marty McFly's dad in Back to the Future
 

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DJ and AFC rolled into one: Bruce Willis in Die Hard I.

After he single-handedly saves his wife from 12 terrorists and proves himself a hero, he radios in a message saying, "I realize whats important now. I should have understood my wife more. I should be grateful for her loving a bum like me." This is literally after he has done untold acts of heroism.

Typical modern western culture: save the world, do heroic ****, then throw yourself to the floor in order to worship the vagina. Fvcking horrible.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Technical1 said:
DJ and AFC rolled into one: Bruce Willis in Die Hard I.

After he single-handedly saves his wife from 12 terrorists and proves himself a hero, he radios in a message saying, "I realize whats important now. I should have understood my wife more. I should be grateful for her loving a bum like me." This is literally after he has done untold acts of heroism.

Typical modern western culture: save the world, do heroic ****, then throw yourself to the floor in order to worship the vagina. Fvcking horrible.
Lol. Aside from that it's a great flick.

What really shocked me recently was watching "Tombstone", which I hadn't since being here. Kick-ass movie, then at the very end Kurt Russel after being the ultimate strong man turns into a total wuss, tracking down the chick who he never even kissed then telling her how he was going to basically worship her for eterntity if she'd have him. And she was kind of a tease as well. Of course in real life it worked out for them but I hope it didn't happen that way. I wonder if the producer's wife had some input into the film's ending.

Also Tao of Steve, which was basically a good movie more or less about being a DJ, then he throws it all away in the end for love. He disowns everything that got him the chick to begin with, saying that it was all crap.

I think there have to be endings like this. You wonder if the filmmakers really wanted to leave it like that.
 
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