I was just mostly curious, but if you would pick any movie/tv character that most resembles a don juan or an AFC, who would they be? Maybe seeing what i should strive for and stay away from will help me on my way to becoming a true DJ.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Lol. Aside from that it's a great flick.Technical1 said:DJ and AFC rolled into one: Bruce Willis in Die Hard I.
After he single-handedly saves his wife from 12 terrorists and proves himself a hero, he radios in a message saying, "I realize whats important now. I should have understood my wife more. I should be grateful for her loving a bum like me." This is literally after he has done untold acts of heroism.
Typical modern western culture: save the world, do heroic ****, then throw yourself to the floor in order to worship the vagina. Fvcking horrible.