"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Move to New Jersey or move to Miami?

captain55

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I’ve lived in Cali my whole life and I’m sick of traffic and the overpopulated ****. What La has offered me is access to beautiful women I wouldn’t of ****ed being anywhere else.

I was in New Jersey last week and I loved the people. I felt like I was around real genuine people for a change and it was refreshing. Miami is full of chicks with the same gold digging **** attitude as La.

What should I chose fellas?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Machine10033

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That’s up to you... At 40... The thought of the cost of living and Miami life style makes me cringe. If I had to chose between the two.. I would take New Jersey... plenty of girls and fun during the spring and summer at the beach. The way this world is going I am staying far away from any cities... the more rural I can get the better... thats just me. Lol
 

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I’ve lived in Cali my whole life and I’m sick of traffic and the overpopulated ****. What La has offered me is access to beautiful women I wouldn’t of ****ed being anywhere else.

I was in New Jersey last week and I loved the people. I felt like I was around real genuine people for a change and it was refreshing. Miami is full of chicks with the same gold digging **** attitude as La.

What should I chose fellas?
It is hot in Miami, but cold in New Jersey.
 

Bible_Belt

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Miami is latin America. I would not live there without knowing spanish. I like the tampa area much better. The women are not as hot, but it is less expensive, they speak english, and it is not a bunch of backwards hillbillies like the rest of florida.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mrgoodstuff

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lol at New Jersey awww hell naw---When I use to be in sales the worst attitude and entitled customers came out NJ

Miami is overpriced but the Poon is A++ including the tourist chick
A++ lol. And lol @ entitlement.
 

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Are you fluent in Spanish? Miami is a lot better if you are fluent in Spanish.
 

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Are you fluent in Spanish? Miami is a lot better if you are fluent in Spanish.
Not fluent in Spanish. Just a 27 year old guy trying to **** as many hot women as possible and enjoy life. I think Miami and jersey are both great, I like the people and culture in jersey better but the women in Miami are hotter (also harder to pull). Still anything bears Cali....don’t see myself ever coming back to even visit this place has gone to ****. I’ll move to a farm in Montana before I ever live in Cali again
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Suave88

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I’ve lived in Cali my whole life and I’m sick of traffic and the overpopulated ****. What La has offered me is access to beautiful women I wouldn’t of ****ed being anywhere else.

I was in New Jersey last week and I loved the people. I felt like I was around real genuine people for a change and it was refreshing. Miami is full of chicks with the same gold digging **** attitude as La.

What should I chose fellas?
Go to where the money is, women should follow.
 

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Depends on where in NJ...big difference between Short Hills and Camden.
This right here, I was thinking northern NJ or southern NJ? In between Morristown & Hackettstown your basically looking at italian girls and latinas. Depends on what your looking for but I think Miami would be better. Have you ever looked into Tampa/clearwater down there is wild fun.
 

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This right here, I was thinking northern NJ or southern NJ? In between Morristown & Hackettstown your basically looking at italian girls and latinas. Depends on what your looking for but I think Miami would be better. Have you ever looked into Tampa/clearwater down there is wild fun.
Isn't Jersey going to be more closed off people and groups? Wouldn't Miami be more open and free flowing due to tourism, the colleges, etc?
 

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Isn't Jersey going to be more closed off people and groups? Wouldn't Miami be more open and free flowing due to tourism, the colleges, etc?
No. Quite the opposite in my experience. Miami is more hood and cliquish. It’s also basically just the Caribbean.

Jersey has a bit of everything - rich white people, poor White people, black Americans, black immigrants, East Asians, South Asians, Italians, Jews, Caribbean Latinos, Central American Latinos .. all have their own enclaves in Jersey
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No. Quite the opposite in my experience. Miami is more hood and cliquish. It’s also basically just the Caribbean.

Jersey has a bit of everything - rich white people, poor White people, black Americans, black immigrants, East Asians, South Asians, Italians, Jews, Caribbean Latinos, Central American Latinos .. all have their own enclaves in Jersey
Yea but will they let outsiders in faster in Jersey or Miami?
 

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I would live in NYC if you can afford it. I live in Jersey and always go into the city when I go out. The places are cooler and the women are hotter, at least they were pre Covid. Plus, New Yorkers despise people from Jersey Lol. If you plan on dating chicks in NYC, some might disqualify just from being from Jersey.
 

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I’ve lived in Cali my whole life and I’m sick of traffic and the overpopulated ****. What La has offered me is access to beautiful women I wouldn’t of ****ed being anywhere else.

I was in New Jersey last week and I loved the people. I felt like I was around real genuine people for a change and it was refreshing. Miami is full of chicks with the same gold digging **** attitude as La.

What should I chose fellas?
I gonna say this because im from jersey..(born in atlantic city) still stuck here...STAY AWAY FROM THIS STATE..RUN, DONT WALK
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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