"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lil Magic

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Well to cut a long story short i was freaking out over this chick and one of my boys told her EVERYTHING what i said including how i'd do her, nice legs, boobs, @$$, ect. Since then its been kinda awdward when she's around, especially since she knows. Before she was saying she might've gone with me but not any more since my friend told her i had a picture of her on my ipod. Should i just leave it be and pretend like it never happend or try and clear things up as best as i cud?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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ouch man... don't try to clear things up because you'll be at the risk of looking stupid.
and don't share your private pics with your friends anymore!! lol
 

nicenomore

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Lil Magic said:
Well to cut a long story short i was freaking out over this chick and one of my boys told her EVERYTHING what i said including how i'd do her, nice legs, boobs, @$$, ect. Since then its been kinda awdward when she's around, especially since she knows. Before she was saying she might've gone with me but not any more since my friend told her i had a picture of her on my ipod. Should i just leave it be and pretend like it never happend or try and clear things up as best as i cud?

move on... time is a gr8 healer... maybe later (2-3 years down the line) , you may apologise..

but yeah .. as for now , movce on..

and keep those so - called friend away fron you
 

kalash74

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Tell her that you said no such thing, and that you wouldn't waste your time with a girl like her. Then move on.
 

john paul

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ya defenently move on, advoid her when you can help it but other than that act like everything is good.
if she wants you again at some point she will let you know
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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nakedtwister

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Wolf said:
Yes, biggest mistake ever... I should know...
LOL.

I can't believe people actually do that.

Talk about stalkerish.



Anyways, yes, you definately screwed up there buddy. The best thing right now to do would be to move on, and avoid contact. Then maybe in a couple months, start talking to her again and see how it goes.
 
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