"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lil Magic

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Well to cut a long story short i was freaking out over this chick and one of my boys told her EVERYTHING what i said including how i'd do her, nice legs, boobs, @$$, ect. Since then its been kinda awdward when she's around, especially since she knows. Before she was saying she might've gone with me but not any more since my friend told her i had a picture of her on my ipod. Should i just leave it be and pretend like it never happend or try and clear things up as best as i cud?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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ouch man... don't try to clear things up because you'll be at the risk of looking stupid.
and don't share your private pics with your friends anymore!! lol
 

nicenomore

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Lil Magic said:
Well to cut a long story short i was freaking out over this chick and one of my boys told her EVERYTHING what i said including how i'd do her, nice legs, boobs, @$$, ect. Since then its been kinda awdward when she's around, especially since she knows. Before she was saying she might've gone with me but not any more since my friend told her i had a picture of her on my ipod. Should i just leave it be and pretend like it never happend or try and clear things up as best as i cud?

move on... time is a gr8 healer... maybe later (2-3 years down the line) , you may apologise..

but yeah .. as for now , movce on..

and keep those so - called friend away fron you
 

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Tell her that you said no such thing, and that you wouldn't waste your time with a girl like her. Then move on.
 

john paul

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ya defenently move on, advoid her when you can help it but other than that act like everything is good.
if she wants you again at some point she will let you know
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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nakedtwister

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Wolf said:
Yes, biggest mistake ever... I should know...
LOL.

I can't believe people actually do that.

Talk about stalkerish.



Anyways, yes, you definately screwed up there buddy. The best thing right now to do would be to move on, and avoid contact. Then maybe in a couple months, start talking to her again and see how it goes.
 
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