"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lil Magic

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Well to cut a long story short i was freaking out over this chick and one of my boys told her EVERYTHING what i said including how i'd do her, nice legs, boobs, @$$, ect. Since then its been kinda awdward when she's around, especially since she knows. Before she was saying she might've gone with me but not any more since my friend told her i had a picture of her on my ipod. Should i just leave it be and pretend like it never happend or try and clear things up as best as i cud?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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ouch man... don't try to clear things up because you'll be at the risk of looking stupid.
and don't share your private pics with your friends anymore!! lol
 

nicenomore

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Lil Magic said:
Well to cut a long story short i was freaking out over this chick and one of my boys told her EVERYTHING what i said including how i'd do her, nice legs, boobs, @$$, ect. Since then its been kinda awdward when she's around, especially since she knows. Before she was saying she might've gone with me but not any more since my friend told her i had a picture of her on my ipod. Should i just leave it be and pretend like it never happend or try and clear things up as best as i cud?

move on... time is a gr8 healer... maybe later (2-3 years down the line) , you may apologise..

but yeah .. as for now , movce on..

and keep those so - called friend away fron you
 

kalash74

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Tell her that you said no such thing, and that you wouldn't waste your time with a girl like her. Then move on.
 

john paul

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ya defenently move on, advoid her when you can help it but other than that act like everything is good.
if she wants you again at some point she will let you know
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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nakedtwister

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Wolf said:
Yes, biggest mistake ever... I should know...
LOL.

I can't believe people actually do that.

Talk about stalkerish.



Anyways, yes, you definately screwed up there buddy. The best thing right now to do would be to move on, and avoid contact. Then maybe in a couple months, start talking to her again and see how it goes.
 
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