"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Mouth, Puss, or @ss..
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
backseatjuan
Banned
I'm pretty confident that I am the biggest ass man on the board. I could talk about ass all day, the different shapes and sizes and textures (soft, medium, firm, etc) but ironically I have no intention of doing anal. In a way though it's kind of hot. What better way to display your dominance than to **** her in all 3 holes. You've completely dominated her body at that point, and I guess that's rewarding, but anal as a stand alone is not very intruiging to me.
I'll stick with the pink stuff.
d!ckmojo
Senior Don Juan
I am not really into blow jobs tbh. Most girls are sh1t at it, they just lick it like a lollipop. There are a few girls though who can suck a d1ck deep throat like she has no gag reflex at all. Those bj's I'm totally into, but girls rarely have the skills to impress me.
And anal is kinda dirty. I don't like getting sh1t on my d1ck. I make the chick do an enema before I'll fcuk her in the ass, and its just a bit of a fcuk around for me.
SgtSplacker
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But puss all the way...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mike32ct
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Mouth is ok.
The third one is not my thing.
SgtSplacker
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d!ckmojo
Senior Don Juan
Anyway, he used to say that anal was waaay superior to any other type of sex and it was just awesome, and I was like "oh, er... ok?"
And he would be like *"yeah the really tight band of pressure from the sphincter just feels amazing around you d1ck".
ken chang
Don Juan
If not, puss.
I have never done @ss. So I don't know if I'll like it or not. Not too many chicks I know are open to that.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SoSuave666
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I prefer hand jobs...
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I once fvcked this drunk b!tch, and I guess she got a lot of air in her pvssy, because she passed out on her back with her knees in the air as soon as I got up, and then she let out a gigantic queef and spewed a huge mist of j!zz into the air like a backyard garden fountain. It was a tiny dorm room, and that sh!t went everywhere. It was on her books, her laptop, her wall posters, plus of course her bed and the floor. Then I left. The next time I saw that room, there was no trace of any mess, and she never said a word about it.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
MikeOck
Don Juan
Bl0wj0bs are a toss up, some women are amazing at it and some are terrible.
Not a fan of anal, I really don't like getting sh!t on my d!ck.
Upside
Senior Don Juan
My best orgasm ever was having sex with a girl in a basement. The best **** was better than the best head I have ever gotten so for me it goes like
1. Puss
2. Mouth
3. Butt
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.