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[Dimebag_Darrell]

After taking a little break from DJing this summer I came back at it yesterday.

I went to the mall with a friend. He works there and he knows a bunch of people that work there, mainly girls...

I was there and for some reason I couldn't
speak up very much. I was around a bunch of people I didn't know, and they were talking about stuff that I didn't find interesting to comment or talk about.

I dunno. I felt real weird. Like, my mouth just wouldn't open up, and usually I've got a lot to say. how do you fix this type of thing?

I'm probably getting all insecure or something.. besides, the dude I was with was real goofy. He talked up the girls and what not, but he was just goofy, and made me feel uncomfortable after a while...

 

[Caveman]

How do you mean 'taking a break from DJ-ing'?
Are there no cute girls to chat up during summer? I think being a real DJ or at least a real MAN means being a MAN all the time. You will attract girls by your attitude while being yourself.
You shouldn't have to put on an act. This way you will not have to take a break.

The idea you have about DJ-ing and taking a break from it, may cause your mind to think you are a little 'out' of it and thus making you a bit insecure.

 

[Patrick124]

Ia gree, it shouldbe naturla. Don't act man, make DJing a part of you.

If I think about it: If i was thrown into a group of guys and girls I didn't know..it might be alil uncomfortable.
You shoulda done somethign extreme to get some attention and spark a convo witha few of the girls though.
Ex: "My name is Dimebag and I have an 18-inch penis. Around. Think aobut it."[thanks to the great Stiffler]
K i dunno, it hoguht it was funny. If you give off a good vibe, girls would probably laugh

 

[Dimebag_Darrell]

By break I mean, I've been pretty busy and sh*t and so no time for scouting potential ONSs or STRs or LTRs.

I need to get back in the game for good though. Chatting up women everywhere I go is supposed to be second nature to me, I've just been out of it for a second.

I've been stressed out about a lot of bullsh*t that's been going on in my life, along with a new job, and that takes time adjustments and what not.

 

[Caveman]

In that case: don't worry about it. It'll come back..

 

[Eternal]

It's just rust. Give yourself a little time and it'll come back.

 

[Vincent]

Originally posted by crazykid
It's just rust. Give yourself a little time and it'll come back.

Yup, just don't kick yourself and keep up the work

 

[Dimebag_Darrell]

Definately....

 

[downfallofdisbelief]

Well, obviously you wern't DJing it since you lost it. You need to make sure what you call "DJ" is your personality. Not your day job. YOU must become the DJ. you dont ACT like the DJ.

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

Originally posted by crazykid
It's just rust. Give yourself a little time and it'll come back.

 

[jonny football hero]

I recently read a gunwitch post that covered your problem.

It theorized that you have to be doing it day in day out to be comfortable with it, if you have a break you are not used to "djing" and therefore forgot what you have to do.

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by jonny football hero
I recently read a gunwitch post that covered your problem.

It theorized that you have to be doing it day in day out to be comfortable with it, if you have a break you are not used to "djing" and therefore forgot what you have to do.

You don't have to do things day in and day out to get comfortable with it. If you take a break, sometimes that's for the better so you don't burn yourself out.

 

[jonny football hero]

Originally posted by crazykid
You don't have to do things day in and day out to get comfortable with it. If you take a break, sometimes that's for the better so you don't burn yourself out.

True. But conversly, if you take a break it takes the edge off, in this case, you "game".