"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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[- Most men's problem isn't being too nice -]

ScrewIt

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I agree, a lot of guys (afc included) have a take it or leave it attitude. They dont go after what they want and they make excuses when the opportunity arises...Be it career, goals, women (kiss close/date close, etc).

In general such men are indecisive...women are fed up with such bullcrap. They need a leader. Dominance compliments submissiveness. If women wanted to lead, they would grow a pair of balls (not tits).

If you're interested in a woman, ask her out. Dont beat around the fvcking bush and become a supplicating girlfriend. make intentions clear and known, let her know you're into her sexually.

A lot of guys have this sh!tty "whatever, I dont care attitude.", they think it's cool...and in the effect they let other people make decisions for them. Ever recall in h.s. all your friends would ask each other what they wanted to do, everyone would say, "Whatever" "sure" or "nah". And the one that had the balls would suggest something, and if they didnt respect him, they'd shoot the idea down...(so instead of shooting him down, why didnt they risk bringing up an idea?)
Those same idiots from h.s. just evolved into AFC's, who are indecisive in life.

It's good to care, it's good to make decisions, it's good just to KNOW what you want. Verbalize it and show it physically with a woman.
As the saying goes...he who hesitates masturbates...
Man the fvck up!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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[R]eality

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I agree with you. Naturally. Many people just forget to relax and live; conventional wisdom holds true in so many things.
 

Rata Blanca

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Heh. I have read so many times "Chicks dig confidence" yada yada
I have noticed that what actually turns them on is initiative
You know, you approach her, you call her, you make the plans etc..
be in control.
 

[R]eality

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So Rata Blanca, so what are we doing on this site, still? F.ck we need it for? All's we need is the Anything Else forum; might as well turn it into Advanced Life Skills forum (mmm like truck upgrades) instead of what it is..
 

Rata Blanca

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I like to check Pook's post and post once in a while.
I guess I want to tell other people what I would wanted to know before finding this site.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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RaWBLooD

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a real man doesnt play games. he has a sense of humour, head games are just immature.
 
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