"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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[- Most men's problem isn't being too nice -]

ScrewIt

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I agree, a lot of guys (afc included) have a take it or leave it attitude. They dont go after what they want and they make excuses when the opportunity arises...Be it career, goals, women (kiss close/date close, etc).

In general such men are indecisive...women are fed up with such bullcrap. They need a leader. Dominance compliments submissiveness. If women wanted to lead, they would grow a pair of balls (not tits).

If you're interested in a woman, ask her out. Dont beat around the fvcking bush and become a supplicating girlfriend. make intentions clear and known, let her know you're into her sexually.

A lot of guys have this sh!tty "whatever, I dont care attitude.", they think it's cool...and in the effect they let other people make decisions for them. Ever recall in h.s. all your friends would ask each other what they wanted to do, everyone would say, "Whatever" "sure" or "nah". And the one that had the balls would suggest something, and if they didnt respect him, they'd shoot the idea down...(so instead of shooting him down, why didnt they risk bringing up an idea?)
Those same idiots from h.s. just evolved into AFC's, who are indecisive in life.

It's good to care, it's good to make decisions, it's good just to KNOW what you want. Verbalize it and show it physically with a woman.
As the saying goes...he who hesitates masturbates...
Man the fvck up!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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[R]eality

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I agree with you. Naturally. Many people just forget to relax and live; conventional wisdom holds true in so many things.
 

Rata Blanca

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Heh. I have read so many times "Chicks dig confidence" yada yada
I have noticed that what actually turns them on is initiative
You know, you approach her, you call her, you make the plans etc..
be in control.
 

[R]eality

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So Rata Blanca, so what are we doing on this site, still? F.ck we need it for? All's we need is the Anything Else forum; might as well turn it into Advanced Life Skills forum (mmm like truck upgrades) instead of what it is..
 

Rata Blanca

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I like to check Pook's post and post once in a while.
I guess I want to tell other people what I would wanted to know before finding this site.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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a real man doesnt play games. he has a sense of humour, head games are just immature.
 
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