"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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[- Most men's problem isn't being too nice -]

ScrewIt

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I agree, a lot of guys (afc included) have a take it or leave it attitude. They dont go after what they want and they make excuses when the opportunity arises...Be it career, goals, women (kiss close/date close, etc).

In general such men are indecisive...women are fed up with such bullcrap. They need a leader. Dominance compliments submissiveness. If women wanted to lead, they would grow a pair of balls (not tits).

If you're interested in a woman, ask her out. Dont beat around the fvcking bush and become a supplicating girlfriend. make intentions clear and known, let her know you're into her sexually.

A lot of guys have this sh!tty "whatever, I dont care attitude.", they think it's cool...and in the effect they let other people make decisions for them. Ever recall in h.s. all your friends would ask each other what they wanted to do, everyone would say, "Whatever" "sure" or "nah". And the one that had the balls would suggest something, and if they didnt respect him, they'd shoot the idea down...(so instead of shooting him down, why didnt they risk bringing up an idea?)
Those same idiots from h.s. just evolved into AFC's, who are indecisive in life.

It's good to care, it's good to make decisions, it's good just to KNOW what you want. Verbalize it and show it physically with a woman.
As the saying goes...he who hesitates masturbates...
Man the fvck up!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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[R]eality

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I agree with you. Naturally. Many people just forget to relax and live; conventional wisdom holds true in so many things.
 

Rata Blanca

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Heh. I have read so many times "Chicks dig confidence" yada yada
I have noticed that what actually turns them on is initiative
You know, you approach her, you call her, you make the plans etc..
be in control.
 

[R]eality

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So Rata Blanca, so what are we doing on this site, still? F.ck we need it for? All's we need is the Anything Else forum; might as well turn it into Advanced Life Skills forum (mmm like truck upgrades) instead of what it is..
 

Rata Blanca

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I like to check Pook's post and post once in a while.
I guess I want to tell other people what I would wanted to know before finding this site.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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RaWBLooD

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a real man doesnt play games. he has a sense of humour, head games are just immature.
 
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