"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Most guys are rejecting this lady on this other prank

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Is she ugly or something? Most guys do not want to kiss her. If she came up to you, would you?

With these crazy prank videos, it seems that women have more success picking up other women then they do guys?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You would kiss her though if she came up to you?
No.

However, if you'd really like to understand how people are, I'd recommend some of David Buss' work.

He goes after the same thing, figuring out what people think and do in various situations, but it's much more scientific and accurate.

YT vids are clickbait nonsense that have no bearing on reality.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No makeup, sweatshirt, is she trying to look unattractive? Maybe it is too easy if she doesn't.
Yeah, there is something a bit off about how she looks. She doesn't have a pretty face or smart collage girl type of look and looks like she may have popped up from the streets into the campus and is trying to scam people, lol Maybe they were expecting her to ask for money. Women normally don't behave like that. I would be cautious too if a lady approached like that and would wonder what her deal is.
 

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Any behaviour that is an anomaly usually alarms people.

This is multiplied x10 when something that you usually have to work for is offered for free.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well, they're in California. Maybe the guys are all sexually confused.

Seriously though, I would be suspicious of a woman who came up and wanted a kiss too. I would think she was either some sort of slvt or she was trying to run some sort of scam on me. Like she'd kiss me and some guy would come up from behind and hit me in the head with a blackjack and take my wallet.
 
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