"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys are rejecting this lady on this other prank
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
taiyuu_otoko
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Dude, you need to stop taking these prank videos at face value.
They don't represent reality.
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You would kiss her though if she came up to you?
taiyuu_otoko
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No.
However, if you'd really like to understand how people are, I'd recommend some of David Buss' work.
He goes after the same thing, figuring out what people think and do in various situations, but it's much more scientific and accurate.
YT vids are clickbait nonsense that have no bearing on reality.
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You are talking to someone who believes that his father temporarily travelled to another dimension. Really is not exactly his forte.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
taiyuu_otoko
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Valid,
Bible_Belt
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Yeah, there is something a bit off about how she looks. She doesn't have a pretty face or smart collage girl type of look and looks like she may have popped up from the streets into the campus and is trying to scam people, lol Maybe they were expecting her to ask for money. Women normally don't behave like that. I would be cautious too if a lady approached like that and would wonder what her deal is.
Fortune_favors_the_bold
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This is multiplied x10 when something that you usually have to work for is offered for free.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Seriously though, I would be suspicious of a woman who came up and wanted a kiss too. I would think she was either some sort of slvt or she was trying to run some sort of scam on me. Like she'd kiss me and some guy would come up from behind and hit me in the head with a blackjack and take my wallet.