"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Dude, you need to stop taking these prank videos at face value.
They don't represent reality.
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You would kiss her though if she came up to you?
taiyuu_otoko
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No.
However, if you'd really like to understand how people are, I'd recommend some of David Buss' work.
He goes after the same thing, figuring out what people think and do in various situations, but it's much more scientific and accurate.
YT vids are clickbait nonsense that have no bearing on reality.
Bokanovsky
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You are talking to someone who believes that his father temporarily travelled to another dimension. Really is not exactly his forte.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Valid,
Bible_Belt
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Yeah, there is something a bit off about how she looks. She doesn't have a pretty face or smart collage girl type of look and looks like she may have popped up from the streets into the campus and is trying to scam people, lol Maybe they were expecting her to ask for money. Women normally don't behave like that. I would be cautious too if a lady approached like that and would wonder what her deal is.
Fortune_favors_the_bold
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This is multiplied x10 when something that you usually have to work for is offered for free.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Seriously though, I would be suspicious of a woman who came up and wanted a kiss too. I would think she was either some sort of slvt or she was trying to run some sort of scam on me. Like she'd kiss me and some guy would come up from behind and hit me in the head with a blackjack and take my wallet.