"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Most effective way to create attraction with a women?

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Most effective way to create attraction with a women?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Be in good shape. Don't be stoned or drunk when you meet her (trust me you are NOT more attractive when you are inebriated) Dress appropriately. Have good hygiene. Don't be afraid to approach her, ask her out. Be charming and funny, make sure she does most of the talking.
 
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Dressing like a preppy pretty boy isn't going to get anyone anywhere. The real secret is not being obvious, don't go out of your way for any of these hoes. In other words if a chance presents itself then talk but don't be obvious, and don't let her catch you looking at her. The indifference and challenge is what attracts them.
 
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Why don't you go out and try different **** for yourself. Pook was so right too many guys get stuck up on trying to get everything perfect instead of letting themselves fail and gaining that knowledge. 1 failure will teach you more than 1000 threads here
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tease her, maintain strong eye contact, exaggerate her body language, make her laugh......if she touches you, brush it off playfully, walk off and talk to another girl in her presence.

Women are competitive species.
 
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Being in demand by other women in her circle or in close proximity is a sure fire way of generating attraction.

Having other females is another way to generate attraction.

Being in upper 10% of physical conditioning is a way of being attractive.

Ignoring them and being a challenge is a way to generate attraction.

Remember guys, the most important thing is you are having success of some kind. So if you find yourself in a drought, I'd say even 2 weeks drought, get your d1ck WET. Just get it wet in a legal age female. Women love men who are not starved for sex or attention.
 
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Preselection, good looks, hygeine, money, success, status, high end car, muscles.

Case closed.
 
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Other than L/M/S, it basically comes down to one thing.

It's been said already in this thread in a round about way: get her to start qualifying herself to you.

Instead of you trying to impress her, get her to start trying to impress you - switch places with her on the pedestal.

Many ways to go about doing this - the tease - the neg - the just not giving a fvck - the not returning her calls or texts - the flaking on her - etc.

It's a shift of attitude. What's in it for you? So what if she's hot? Those chicks are a dime a dozen, what else does she have to offer?

This type of behavior - thought process - will create a you first - win/win mentality - attitude. Which will naturally create attraction when dealing with women.
 
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WanderingMan said:
Other than L/M/S, it basically comes down to one thing.

It's been said already in this thread in a round about way: get her to start qualifying herself to you.

Instead of you trying to impress her, get her to start trying to impress you - switch places with her on the pedestal.

Many ways to go about doing this - the tease - the neg - the just not giving a fvck - the not returning her calls or texts - the flaking on her - etc.

It's a shift of attitude. What's in it for you? So what if she's hot? Those chicks are a dime a dozen, what else does she have to offer?

This type of behavior - thought process - will create a you first - win/win mentality - attitude. Which will naturally create attraction when dealing with women.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How you look, it is important yeah, but personality is much more important. You have to be relaxed, open, honest and fun. Being romantic is good too, but don't be way too romantic:).
 
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Good looks seems to matter more than anything else.
 
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teebear said:
Good looks seems to matter more than anything else.
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What about your brain? I know "good looks" generate an initial attraction, but once you start opening your mouth and talking...
 
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