"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Most effective way to create attraction with a women?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Be in good shape. Don't be stoned or drunk when you meet her (trust me you are NOT more attractive when you are inebriated) Dress appropriately. Have good hygiene. Don't be afraid to approach her, ask her out. Be charming and funny, make sure she does most of the talking.
 
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Dressing like a preppy pretty boy isn't going to get anyone anywhere. The real secret is not being obvious, don't go out of your way for any of these hoes. In other words if a chance presents itself then talk but don't be obvious, and don't let her catch you looking at her. The indifference and challenge is what attracts them.
 
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Why don't you go out and try different **** for yourself. Pook was so right too many guys get stuck up on trying to get everything perfect instead of letting themselves fail and gaining that knowledge. 1 failure will teach you more than 1000 threads here
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tease her, maintain strong eye contact, exaggerate her body language, make her laugh......if she touches you, brush it off playfully, walk off and talk to another girl in her presence.

Women are competitive species.
 
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Being in demand by other women in her circle or in close proximity is a sure fire way of generating attraction.

Having other females is another way to generate attraction.

Being in upper 10% of physical conditioning is a way of being attractive.

Ignoring them and being a challenge is a way to generate attraction.

Remember guys, the most important thing is you are having success of some kind. So if you find yourself in a drought, I'd say even 2 weeks drought, get your d1ck WET. Just get it wet in a legal age female. Women love men who are not starved for sex or attention.
 
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Preselection, good looks, hygeine, money, success, status, high end car, muscles.

Case closed.
 
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Other than L/M/S, it basically comes down to one thing.

It's been said already in this thread in a round about way: get her to start qualifying herself to you.

Instead of you trying to impress her, get her to start trying to impress you - switch places with her on the pedestal.

Many ways to go about doing this - the tease - the neg - the just not giving a fvck - the not returning her calls or texts - the flaking on her - etc.

It's a shift of attitude. What's in it for you? So what if she's hot? Those chicks are a dime a dozen, what else does she have to offer?

This type of behavior - thought process - will create a you first - win/win mentality - attitude. Which will naturally create attraction when dealing with women.
 
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WanderingMan said:
Other than L/M/S, it basically comes down to one thing.

It's been said already in this thread in a round about way: get her to start qualifying herself to you.

Instead of you trying to impress her, get her to start trying to impress you - switch places with her on the pedestal.

Many ways to go about doing this - the tease - the neg - the just not giving a fvck - the not returning her calls or texts - the flaking on her - etc.

It's a shift of attitude. What's in it for you? So what if she's hot? Those chicks are a dime a dozen, what else does she have to offer?

This type of behavior - thought process - will create a you first - win/win mentality - attitude. Which will naturally create attraction when dealing with women.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How you look, it is important yeah, but personality is much more important. You have to be relaxed, open, honest and fun. Being romantic is good too, but don't be way too romantic:).
 
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Good looks seems to matter more than anything else.
 
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teebear said:
Good looks seems to matter more than anything else.
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What about your brain? I know "good looks" generate an initial attraction, but once you start opening your mouth and talking...
 
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