blackbelt2k
Senior Don Juan
anything by neyo... god, that guy pisses me off, he makes me want to **** out all my testosterone.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Most AFC Songs
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Beeootiful. Beeotifu-uh-uh-uhl it's true.KarmaSutra said:That fvcking James Blunt, if I hear that sh!tbird again I'll slit someones' throat.
I was looking at some of this guy's lyrics. There's no way in hell he can really be like that. He must be writing these lyrics to sell records to women.
(might be pointing out the obvious here)
crawfordicon
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The exception to the AFC rule is that so many of these r and b AFC guys are incredibly successful with women. Part of it is the money and fame, and I'd also question whether they are as AFC in life as they suggest in their songs - but certainly an exception to the usual AFC rules.Alphamale1821 said:R and B is what mainly puts women on pedastals.
I got a new winner!
Everywhere I go I keep hearing the same sh1tty music "Hey There Delilah" makes my balls shrivel, especially the dude's whiney little voice tormented by his girlfriend being away in college. Shut the fvck up already! your girl is probably getting the sausage special in NYC by some dude who doesn't whine like a little b1tch and makes everyone's ears bleed.
Everywhere I go I keep hearing the same sh1tty music "Hey There Delilah" makes my balls shrivel, especially the dude's whiney little voice tormented by his girlfriend being away in college. Shut the fvck up already! your girl is probably getting the sausage special in NYC by some dude who doesn't whine like a little b1tch and makes everyone's ears bleed.
aussiegoat55
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I was waiting for someone to mention Sean Kingston, a girl so beautiful she would drive a guy to committ suicide?DJ1234 said:That Sean Kingston "Beautiful Girls" is probably the most AFC song ever or atleast one of them...GAWD, I swear there are a thousand AFC's created for every min. that song is heard....On the other hand Elliot Yamin's song I'll be waiting for you is a good song except for the I'll be waiting for you part, that is just AFC...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
girl_in_a_boy_forum
Senior Don Juan
Someone Much cooler
Senior Don Juan
"I don't wanna know" by that lame Mario Winans
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
Loser by Beck
Any Song played at Lilith Fair
Crawling Back to You - Backstreet Boys ok all of their songs..
Be With You - Enrique Iglesias... ok most of his songs too...
*Most Country Songs*
*Most R&B Songs. Unless it's sexxxy...*
*Most Ballads*
*Blues*
*Classical ~ Most*
*Opera's*
*Really most songs by guys.....*
The girls sing songs about how they are moving on to better things... I will Survive...Survivor.....Red High Heals...Never Going to Get it.....etc
Let’s hear James Blunt sing a Song like that... It will never make the radio, but hey even better!
I think any time you take any of the lyrics as anything more than symbolism/metaphors than it becomes AFCish. I really think that is why everyone thinks Beautiful Girls is AFC. After listening to it I think it is just another way of saying Damn Girl YOU are Sizzling!... I really don't think he is saying he wants to commit suicide... Come on guys think about it and don't take it so seriously.
Any Song played at Lilith Fair
Crawling Back to You - Backstreet Boys ok all of their songs..
Be With You - Enrique Iglesias... ok most of his songs too...
*Most Country Songs*
*Most R&B Songs. Unless it's sexxxy...*
*Most Ballads*
*Blues*
*Classical ~ Most*
*Opera's*
*Really most songs by guys.....*
The girls sing songs about how they are moving on to better things... I will Survive...Survivor.....Red High Heals...Never Going to Get it.....etc
Let’s hear James Blunt sing a Song like that... It will never make the radio, but hey even better!
I think any time you take any of the lyrics as anything more than symbolism/metaphors than it becomes AFCish. I really think that is why everyone thinks Beautiful Girls is AFC. After listening to it I think it is just another way of saying Damn Girl YOU are Sizzling!... I really don't think he is saying he wants to commit suicide... Come on guys think about it and don't take it so seriously.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
Beautiful Lady by Roger Troutman and Charlie Wilson -
I can't tell if it's AFC or not.. Roger sounds like he's pro while singing.
Anyway almost ALL r&b is way way AFC...
Except for James Brown I'll have to say, and he doesn't sing that much about being in love with women.
I mean come on... Sex Machine is pure DJ hahaha
I can't tell if it's AFC or not.. Roger sounds like he's pro while singing.
Anyway almost ALL r&b is way way AFC...
Except for James Brown I'll have to say, and he doesn't sing that much about being in love with women.
I mean come on... Sex Machine is pure DJ hahaha
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
Wow thinking about it most music is AFC, or atleast it seems. Interesting.
Anyone heard this song?
"Almost Lover" by A Fine Frenzy
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HCeS-yorGtc
God, I dont want to feel the way this song makes me feel.
"Almost Lover" by A Fine Frenzy
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HCeS-yorGtc
God, I dont want to feel the way this song makes me feel.
Nexus Polaris
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A few things I have to say here:
1. Hinder is the worst band I've ever heard in my life. Their faux bad boy image is in stark contrast to their wuss core songs about........ being a wuss.
2. How is Beck's "Loser" AFC? Like all of his material, the verses are pure beatnik gibberish, and the chorus as far as I know is supposed to be tongue-in-cheek.
3. A lot of music is AFC because it's generally written by two types of people; AFC wusses who need to vent their frustration about how women make them miserable, and super suave DJ types who use it to lure in women (which really isn't that AFC if you ask me. it's DJ wrapped up in a nice little AFC packaging).
Also, it's crazy how much music affects your overall mentality. I never realize how much most of the stuff I listen to that dwells on negativity and self-loathing affects my mindstate until I throw on the occassional Brooks Buford or Bone Thugs N Harmony record and for the next hour I walk around not giving a fück about anything.
If you listen to a lot of AFC or self-loathing music out of habit, limit it. Balance it out with more alpha shìt. It will totally change your mood over time.
1. Hinder is the worst band I've ever heard in my life. Their faux bad boy image is in stark contrast to their wuss core songs about........ being a wuss.
2. How is Beck's "Loser" AFC? Like all of his material, the verses are pure beatnik gibberish, and the chorus as far as I know is supposed to be tongue-in-cheek.
3. A lot of music is AFC because it's generally written by two types of people; AFC wusses who need to vent their frustration about how women make them miserable, and super suave DJ types who use it to lure in women (which really isn't that AFC if you ask me. it's DJ wrapped up in a nice little AFC packaging).
Also, it's crazy how much music affects your overall mentality. I never realize how much most of the stuff I listen to that dwells on negativity and self-loathing affects my mindstate until I throw on the occassional Brooks Buford or Bone Thugs N Harmony record and for the next hour I walk around not giving a fück about anything.
If you listen to a lot of AFC or self-loathing music out of habit, limit it. Balance it out with more alpha shìt. It will totally change your mood over time.
OMG everytime I see this video clip I switch the channel he have another song called "me love" its worse than "Beautiful Girls" this guy should have his ass kicked or injected with 500mg weekly!DJ1234 said:That Sean Kingston "Beautiful Girls" is probably the most AFC song ever or atleast one of them...GAWD, I swear there are a thousand AFC's created for every min. that song is heard....On the other hand Elliot Yamin's song I'll be waiting for you is a good song except for the I'll be waiting for you part, that is just AFC...
Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:girl_in_a_boy_forum said:
I couldn't make it past :36 seconds without everyone wondering what the hell was wrong with me.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
nothing by dyslexic speedreaders. To quote andre legacy, "I rap about doing drugs and my ****"
Also, Incubus is probably the best DJ band, and not just pickup-wise. The acoustic version of a certain shade of green probably had more of an effect on me than this whole site.
Also, Incubus is probably the best DJ band, and not just pickup-wise. The acoustic version of a certain shade of green probably had more of an effect on me than this whole site.
RockAndRollRefugee
Don Juan
Though a great deal of music is AFC, musicians get laid very easily. The "A" in AFC stands for average and famous musicians are not, in the eyes of women, average. A lot of these musicians are no longer sexually frustrated either after they hit it big.
AFC Song examples: Your Beautiful -James Blunt, Crush - Dave Matthews Band, Sweet Child O Mine - Guns & Roses, Layla - Derek and the Dominos,
DJ song: Hell, best example is Big Pimpin by Jay-Z
AFC Song examples: Your Beautiful -James Blunt, Crush - Dave Matthews Band, Sweet Child O Mine - Guns & Roses, Layla - Derek and the Dominos,
DJ song: Hell, best example is Big Pimpin by Jay-Z
song is pimp.. i think i'm gonna go get that albumgirl_in_a_boy_forum said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.