"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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anything by neyo... god, that guy pisses me off, he makes me want to **** out all my testosterone.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KarmaSutra said:
That fvcking James Blunt, if I hear that sh!tbird again I'll slit someones' throat.
Beeootiful. Beeotifu-uh-uh-uhl it's true.

I was looking at some of this guy's lyrics. There's no way in hell he can really be like that. He must be writing these lyrics to sell records to women.

(might be pointing out the obvious here)
 

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Alphamale1821 said:
R and B is what mainly puts women on pedastals.
The exception to the AFC rule is that so many of these r and b AFC guys are incredibly successful with women. Part of it is the money and fame, and I'd also question whether they are as AFC in life as they suggest in their songs - but certainly an exception to the usual AFC rules.
 

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I got a new winner!

Everywhere I go I keep hearing the same sh1tty music "Hey There Delilah" makes my balls shrivel, especially the dude's whiney little voice tormented by his girlfriend being away in college. Shut the fvck up already! your girl is probably getting the sausage special in NYC by some dude who doesn't whine like a little b1tch and makes everyone's ears bleed.
 

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DJ1234 said:
That Sean Kingston "Beautiful Girls" is probably the most AFC song ever or atleast one of them...GAWD, I swear there are a thousand AFC's created for every min. that song is heard....On the other hand Elliot Yamin's song I'll be waiting for you is a good song except for the I'll be waiting for you part, that is just AFC...
I was waiting for someone to mention Sean Kingston, a girl so beautiful she would drive a guy to committ suicide?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Loser by Beck
Any Song played at Lilith Fair
Crawling Back to You - Backstreet Boys ok all of their songs..
Be With You - Enrique Iglesias... ok most of his songs too...
*Most Country Songs*
*Most R&B Songs. Unless it's sexxxy...*
*Most Ballads*
*Blues*
*Classical ~ Most*
*Opera's*
*Really most songs by guys.....*

The girls sing songs about how they are moving on to better things... I will Survive...Survivor.....Red High Heals...Never Going to Get it.....etc

Let’s hear James Blunt sing a Song like that... It will never make the radio, but hey even better!

I think any time you take any of the lyrics as anything more than symbolism/metaphors than it becomes AFCish. I really think that is why everyone thinks Beautiful Girls is AFC. After listening to it I think it is just another way of saying Damn Girl YOU are Sizzling!... I really don't think he is saying he wants to commit suicide... Come on guys think about it and don't take it so seriously.
 

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Beautiful Lady by Roger Troutman and Charlie Wilson -
I can't tell if it's AFC or not.. Roger sounds like he's pro while singing.

Anyway almost ALL r&b is way way AFC...
Except for James Brown I'll have to say, and he doesn't sing that much about being in love with women.

I mean come on... Sex Machine is pure DJ hahaha
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A few things I have to say here:

1. Hinder is the worst band I've ever heard in my life. Their faux bad boy image is in stark contrast to their wuss core songs about........ being a wuss.

2. How is Beck's "Loser" AFC? Like all of his material, the verses are pure beatnik gibberish, and the chorus as far as I know is supposed to be tongue-in-cheek.

3. A lot of music is AFC because it's generally written by two types of people; AFC wusses who need to vent their frustration about how women make them miserable, and super suave DJ types who use it to lure in women (which really isn't that AFC if you ask me. it's DJ wrapped up in a nice little AFC packaging).


Also, it's crazy how much music affects your overall mentality. I never realize how much most of the stuff I listen to that dwells on negativity and self-loathing affects my mindstate until I throw on the occassional Brooks Buford or Bone Thugs N Harmony record and for the next hour I walk around not giving a fück about anything.

If you listen to a lot of AFC or self-loathing music out of habit, limit it. Balance it out with more alpha shìt. It will totally change your mood over time.
 

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DJ1234 said:
That Sean Kingston "Beautiful Girls" is probably the most AFC song ever or atleast one of them...GAWD, I swear there are a thousand AFC's created for every min. that song is heard....On the other hand Elliot Yamin's song I'll be waiting for you is a good song except for the I'll be waiting for you part, that is just AFC...
OMG everytime I see this video clip I switch the channel he have another song called "me love" its worse than "Beautiful Girls" this guy should have his ass kicked or injected with 500mg weekly!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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nothing by dyslexic speedreaders. To quote andre legacy, "I rap about doing drugs and my ****"

Also, Incubus is probably the best DJ band, and not just pickup-wise. The acoustic version of a certain shade of green probably had more of an effect on me than this whole site.
 

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2 good dj songs rock and roll by led zeppelin and penny for your thoughts jeols plaskett
 
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Though a great deal of music is AFC, musicians get laid very easily. The "A" in AFC stands for average and famous musicians are not, in the eyes of women, average. A lot of these musicians are no longer sexually frustrated either after they hit it big.

AFC Song examples: Your Beautiful -James Blunt, Crush - Dave Matthews Band, Sweet Child O Mine - Guns & Roses, Layla - Derek and the Dominos,

DJ song: Hell, best example is Big Pimpin by Jay-Z
 

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Who the heck is James Blunt?
How is Sweet Child of Mine AFC? That song rocks hard at the end.

AFC - This I Promise You - NSync

DJ Song - B-ches Ain't S--t by Dr. Dre
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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