"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Morning swims?

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I was pondering if going swimming while the water was very cold was beneficial or harmful for me?
Its the first day of spring and i thought i'd start my usual swimming routine for summer (20 mins a day) but its like 10 degrees in there! I don't want to kill my self here...

Can anyone point me to some info on this? thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WORKEROUTER

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...if its really cold you probably shouldnt swim in there...but that should be obvious, shouldnt it??
 

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well its not literally freezing but its cold enough... 5-10 celcius
there are alot of people that do it as it is supposed to be good for circulation etc

i decided i'd just go in so i went in 3 times
got a bit better each time only bad thing is my muscles felt all tense while doing it.
 
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