Hey Everbody,
Just had a girl spend the night for the first time (was our third time seeing one another), . Made dinner, watched a movie and we had sex a couple times and I gave her an O from head this morning. Had cup of coffee in bed together and she left around 9am.
Anyone ever get this weird feeling, almost down-like, after a night of sex with a girl you’re into (more than just casual)? It’s almost as if I just want more of the same, and now that it’s gone I feel almost doubtful and wondering if/when I’ll see her again. As she left, she was talking about me seeing something at her apartment sometime, and I just told her to “call me sometime”. Regardless of if she does or doesn’t, I’ll shoot her a text in 3-4 days or so to try to line up another date.
At first, there was a little performance anxiety, and I couldn’t stay too hard, eventually she went down on me and then it wasn’t an issue after that. Do people get this with girls on the first hookup? I hadn’t fapped or watched porn for nearly a week either, knowing ahead of time it was likely we would have sex.
Meanwhile, tonight, I have a date lined up with a girl who has made it clear she only wants casual, so that’s on the horizon.
But what would this be? Afterglow? I’ve experienced it before and it always feels stronger with a girl who I’m more into than those that are purely one night stand or more casual. Usually fades by evening or so, but has anyone experienced it before?
Bottom line is, I got laid, made sure she got off too. All in all I should be happy about it all, but I almost feel a little down on myself and I have absolutely no clue why.
Just had a girl spend the night for the first time (was our third time seeing one another), . Made dinner, watched a movie and we had sex a couple times and I gave her an O from head this morning. Had cup of coffee in bed together and she left around 9am.
Anyone ever get this weird feeling, almost down-like, after a night of sex with a girl you’re into (more than just casual)? It’s almost as if I just want more of the same, and now that it’s gone I feel almost doubtful and wondering if/when I’ll see her again. As she left, she was talking about me seeing something at her apartment sometime, and I just told her to “call me sometime”. Regardless of if she does or doesn’t, I’ll shoot her a text in 3-4 days or so to try to line up another date.
At first, there was a little performance anxiety, and I couldn’t stay too hard, eventually she went down on me and then it wasn’t an issue after that. Do people get this with girls on the first hookup? I hadn’t fapped or watched porn for nearly a week either, knowing ahead of time it was likely we would have sex.
Meanwhile, tonight, I have a date lined up with a girl who has made it clear she only wants casual, so that’s on the horizon.
But what would this be? Afterglow? I’ve experienced it before and it always feels stronger with a girl who I’m more into than those that are purely one night stand or more casual. Usually fades by evening or so, but has anyone experienced it before?
Bottom line is, I got laid, made sure she got off too. All in all I should be happy about it all, but I almost feel a little down on myself and I have absolutely no clue why.