Morning after hookup feels

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Thinking this or just do what AMS does and make a statement (I.e. Hey, good morning - just hoping you have a productive day ahead) and then build up to asking upon her reply. However I do prefer being direct and asking the girl for her availability, rather than trying to pin down a specific day right away or making a generic statement like AMS, to which they could just reply something short and dumb like “thanks, you too!”..

In this case, per my earlier post, there is only a 2 day window where something could get lined up, otherwise it would be 2.5 weeks minimum between our dates with us having vacations lined up
Yea. Definetly have to see her before the vacations happen. And when you do take her out this week, take her to 2 or 3 different places so it feels like you get more dates in; it will leave things off on a better foot since you won’t be seeing her for 2.5 weeks.
Focus on having fun and escalate a bunch on the date.
 

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I hadn’t fapped or watched porn for nearly a week either, knowing ahead of time it was likely we would have sex.
How do you know this? Do you have telekinetic powers?

Meanwhile, tonight, I have a date lined up with a girl who has made it clear she only wants casual, so that’s on the horizon.
Really?

“BJP, I just want to have sex with you. Just a casual casual thing with no strings, no feelings, no emotions, attached. Are you ok with this?”
“Well can we date and stuff?”
“No no no. Nothing serious. Just pure sex with you.”
“OK, I guess.”



But what would this be? Afterglow? I’ve experienced it before and it always feels stronger with a girl who I’m more into than those that are purely one night stand or more casual. Usually fades by evening or so, but has anyone experienced it before?
Not really. What are you looking for?

Bottom line is, I got laid, made sure she got off too. All in all I should be happy about it all, but I almost feel a little down on myself and I have absolutely no clue why.
Because when men get older, they don’t care about sex. They care about love, a connection, companionship, someone to care for them.

When women get older, they don’t care about love, a connection, companionship, someone to care for them. They care about sex.
 

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Hey Everbody,

Just had a girl spend the night for the first time (was our third time seeing one another), . Made dinner, watched a movie and we had sex a couple times and I gave her an O from head this morning. Had cup of coffee in bed together and she left around 9am.

Anyone ever get this weird feeling, almost down-like, after a night of sex with a girl you’re into (more than just casual)? It’s almost as if I just want more of the same, and now that it’s gone I feel almost doubtful and wondering if/when I’ll see her again. As she left, she was talking about me seeing something at her apartment sometime, and I just told her to “call me sometime”. Regardless of if she does or doesn’t, I’ll shoot her a text in 3-4 days or so to try to line up another date.

At first, there was a little performance anxiety, and I couldn’t stay too hard, eventually she went down on me and then it wasn’t an issue after that. Do people get this with girls on the first hookup? I hadn’t fapped or watched porn for nearly a week either, knowing ahead of time it was likely we would have sex.

Meanwhile, tonight, I have a date lined up with a girl who has made it clear she only wants casual, so that’s on the horizon.

But what would this be? Afterglow? I’ve experienced it before and it always feels stronger with a girl who I’m more into than those that are purely one night stand or more casual. Usually fades by evening or so, but has anyone experienced it before?

Bottom line is, I got laid, made sure she got off too. All in all I should be happy about it all, but I almost feel a little down on myself and I have absolutely no clue why.
That's my boy well done! It's just the feels. I normally get that when I don't want to pursue a relationship with her only casual sex. Worst guilt ever.
 

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Bottom line is, I got laid, made sure she got off too. All in all I should be happy about it all, but I almost feel a little down on myself and I have absolutely no clue why.
In a rotation, a chick i liked her company only to like the next one more. Its funny how that happened. Furthermore, I spent more time with the 1st girl, i hookup with the second one pretty much ONS. I never saw her again. My back had claw marks. Her room looked like a nuke hit. Also, as we ripped off rach others clothes, she did her Tom Brady impersonation and tossed my shirt lulz. I never seen a girl do that. It was pretty obnoxious and hilarious.

The sec you get a crush, men enter beta cuck provider, come off needy, and display troll aesthetics. Women hate troll aesthetics.

You're attached entering her frame. Crush your casual thrn, go get more baeeeees. Aftershe leaves, i expect never to see her again. If i do, cool whateves. Out getting more girls.
 

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“BJP, I just want to have sex with you. Just a casual casual thing with no strings, no feelings, no emotions, attached. Are you ok with this?”
“Well can we date and stuff?”
“No no no. Nothing serious. Just pure sex with you.”
“OK, I guess.”
I always appreciate these about your posts and now it happened on mine, lol. Thanks for the reality check
 

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