“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sazc

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I was on pof. I didn't flake and looked exactly like my pics. It happens.

Just don't take anything personal, or to heart, when it comes to online dating.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hmmm....

I read over the conversations you had with these Tinder chicks. You said you've been trying to build up more rappaport with them,but things still seem to be falling apart when you go for the date/number. I was trying to think of a delicate way to put this,but....I....I just can't simply find one.

Your conversations are...well.....HORSESH1T. Just look at the topics you discuss.....

Ariel/"My little mermaid"
Serial killers
Pedophiles
getting kidnapped
being homeless on the streets
Dogs/sheep dogs/australian shephards. You talk about how smart they are and how they have great attitudes.
you even mentioned possibly meeting.....the DOG.


You need to learn how to flirt better. It's not that your topics are horrible (well,not all),you just need to get more ATTRACT based conversation. All you stuff is like comfort.


I don't do tinder,but do online dating,like Cupid. I just get to the point....like,I'll ask a chick out in the FIRST message. Do I expect her to just simply say yes? Course not,but that NOT THE PURPOSE of me asking her out from jump....it's to get a conversation going where us going out is THE TOPIC OF DISCUSSION. Then me flirting doesn't seem out of the blue because that's part of the subject matter.

Like I'll ask a girl out,then I'll mention how near year's eve is bout to show up and how I'm gonna need someone to hug and kiss on while ringing in the new year...with a smiley face with a sly grin. You got to get the ATTRACT based convo going FIRST,then you go to comfort later. You're all over the place.....pedophiles,kidnapping,being homeless,meeting people's pets,etc,etc.


Stop being around the bush,and get to the point. And just ask when is she gonna "hang out" with you,I'd drop the "coffee" line,you can decide on what the "activity" will be after she agree.


You just need to flirt more and let the TWO OF YOU MEETING be the main subject instead of going all over the place with all these different random convos.
 

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I'm honestly tired of hearing this all tinder sh1t.
Tinder is a nice way of getting flaked and paying for random chicks without getting anything. if you want to waste your time and money go to a casino or something.

Listen very carefully, you're ready?

Step 1: Delete the app
Step 2: Go the a Gym, get ripped.
Step 3: Come back to real life. you know, where girls are not doing their stupid duck face sh1t and photoshop every picture so they look like they are 9 when in reallity they are fat wh0res who got their attiude so wrong they wont even look at the a an average good looking guy because they get so much virtual attention.
Step 4: What is tinder?
 

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I'm honestly tired of hearing this all tinder sh1t.
Tinder is a nice way of getting flaked and paying for random chicks without getting anything. if you want to waste your time and money go to a casino or something.

Listen very carefully, you're ready?

Step 1: Delete the app
Step 2: Go the a Gym, get ripped.
Step 3: Come back to real life. you know, where girls are not doing their stupid duck face sh1t and photoshop every picture so they look like they are 9 when in reallity they are fat wh0res who got their attiude so wrong they wont even look at the a an average good looking guy because they get so much virtual attention.
Step 4: What is tinder?
I love this site :)
 

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LOL no. You don't need to get defensive. I was just saying expect them to flake so you don't get disappointed. I've actually met up with 5 or 6 Tinder girls this year, but they seem to be the exception to the rule, as 4 or 5 times as many seem to flake as compared to following through
I expect nothing of these h0ez.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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