"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sazc

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I was on pof. I didn't flake and looked exactly like my pics. It happens.

Just don't take anything personal, or to heart, when it comes to online dating.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hmmm....

I read over the conversations you had with these Tinder chicks. You said you've been trying to build up more rappaport with them,but things still seem to be falling apart when you go for the date/number. I was trying to think of a delicate way to put this,but....I....I just can't simply find one.

Your conversations are...well.....HORSESH1T. Just look at the topics you discuss.....

Ariel/"My little mermaid"
Serial killers
Pedophiles
getting kidnapped
being homeless on the streets
Dogs/sheep dogs/australian shephards. You talk about how smart they are and how they have great attitudes.
you even mentioned possibly meeting.....the DOG.


You need to learn how to flirt better. It's not that your topics are horrible (well,not all),you just need to get more ATTRACT based conversation. All you stuff is like comfort.


I don't do tinder,but do online dating,like Cupid. I just get to the point....like,I'll ask a chick out in the FIRST message. Do I expect her to just simply say yes? Course not,but that NOT THE PURPOSE of me asking her out from jump....it's to get a conversation going where us going out is THE TOPIC OF DISCUSSION. Then me flirting doesn't seem out of the blue because that's part of the subject matter.

Like I'll ask a girl out,then I'll mention how near year's eve is bout to show up and how I'm gonna need someone to hug and kiss on while ringing in the new year...with a smiley face with a sly grin. You got to get the ATTRACT based convo going FIRST,then you go to comfort later. You're all over the place.....pedophiles,kidnapping,being homeless,meeting people's pets,etc,etc.


Stop being around the bush,and get to the point. And just ask when is she gonna "hang out" with you,I'd drop the "coffee" line,you can decide on what the "activity" will be after she agree.


You just need to flirt more and let the TWO OF YOU MEETING be the main subject instead of going all over the place with all these different random convos.
 

Jetleg

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I'm honestly tired of hearing this all tinder sh1t.
Tinder is a nice way of getting flaked and paying for random chicks without getting anything. if you want to waste your time and money go to a casino or something.

Listen very carefully, you're ready?

Step 1: Delete the app
Step 2: Go the a Gym, get ripped.
Step 3: Come back to real life. you know, where girls are not doing their stupid duck face sh1t and photoshop every picture so they look like they are 9 when in reallity they are fat wh0res who got their attiude so wrong they wont even look at the a an average good looking guy because they get so much virtual attention.
Step 4: What is tinder?
 

sazc

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I'm honestly tired of hearing this all tinder sh1t.
Tinder is a nice way of getting flaked and paying for random chicks without getting anything. if you want to waste your time and money go to a casino or something.

Listen very carefully, you're ready?

Step 1: Delete the app
Step 2: Go the a Gym, get ripped.
Step 3: Come back to real life. you know, where girls are not doing their stupid duck face sh1t and photoshop every picture so they look like they are 9 when in reallity they are fat wh0res who got their attiude so wrong they wont even look at the a an average good looking guy because they get so much virtual attention.
Step 4: What is tinder?
I love this site :)
 

C00lAF

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LOL no. You don't need to get defensive. I was just saying expect them to flake so you don't get disappointed. I've actually met up with 5 or 6 Tinder girls this year, but they seem to be the exception to the rule, as 4 or 5 times as many seem to flake as compared to following through
I expect nothing of these h0ez.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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