"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sazc

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I was on pof. I didn't flake and looked exactly like my pics. It happens.

Just don't take anything personal, or to heart, when it comes to online dating.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hmmm....

I read over the conversations you had with these Tinder chicks. You said you've been trying to build up more rappaport with them,but things still seem to be falling apart when you go for the date/number. I was trying to think of a delicate way to put this,but....I....I just can't simply find one.

Your conversations are...well.....HORSESH1T. Just look at the topics you discuss.....

Ariel/"My little mermaid"
Serial killers
Pedophiles
getting kidnapped
being homeless on the streets
Dogs/sheep dogs/australian shephards. You talk about how smart they are and how they have great attitudes.
you even mentioned possibly meeting.....the DOG.


You need to learn how to flirt better. It's not that your topics are horrible (well,not all),you just need to get more ATTRACT based conversation. All you stuff is like comfort.


I don't do tinder,but do online dating,like Cupid. I just get to the point....like,I'll ask a chick out in the FIRST message. Do I expect her to just simply say yes? Course not,but that NOT THE PURPOSE of me asking her out from jump....it's to get a conversation going where us going out is THE TOPIC OF DISCUSSION. Then me flirting doesn't seem out of the blue because that's part of the subject matter.

Like I'll ask a girl out,then I'll mention how near year's eve is bout to show up and how I'm gonna need someone to hug and kiss on while ringing in the new year...with a smiley face with a sly grin. You got to get the ATTRACT based convo going FIRST,then you go to comfort later. You're all over the place.....pedophiles,kidnapping,being homeless,meeting people's pets,etc,etc.


Stop being around the bush,and get to the point. And just ask when is she gonna "hang out" with you,I'd drop the "coffee" line,you can decide on what the "activity" will be after she agree.


You just need to flirt more and let the TWO OF YOU MEETING be the main subject instead of going all over the place with all these different random convos.
 

Jetleg

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I'm honestly tired of hearing this all tinder sh1t.
Tinder is a nice way of getting flaked and paying for random chicks without getting anything. if you want to waste your time and money go to a casino or something.

Listen very carefully, you're ready?

Step 1: Delete the app
Step 2: Go the a Gym, get ripped.
Step 3: Come back to real life. you know, where girls are not doing their stupid duck face sh1t and photoshop every picture so they look like they are 9 when in reallity they are fat wh0res who got their attiude so wrong they wont even look at the a an average good looking guy because they get so much virtual attention.
Step 4: What is tinder?
 

sazc

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I'm honestly tired of hearing this all tinder sh1t.
Tinder is a nice way of getting flaked and paying for random chicks without getting anything. if you want to waste your time and money go to a casino or something.

Listen very carefully, you're ready?

Step 1: Delete the app
Step 2: Go the a Gym, get ripped.
Step 3: Come back to real life. you know, where girls are not doing their stupid duck face sh1t and photoshop every picture so they look like they are 9 when in reallity they are fat wh0res who got their attiude so wrong they wont even look at the a an average good looking guy because they get so much virtual attention.
Step 4: What is tinder?
I love this site :)
 

C00lAF

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LOL no. You don't need to get defensive. I was just saying expect them to flake so you don't get disappointed. I've actually met up with 5 or 6 Tinder girls this year, but they seem to be the exception to the rule, as 4 or 5 times as many seem to flake as compared to following through
I expect nothing of these h0ez.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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