“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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InVader

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What’s the best advice you can give to guys looking to attract a girl who may have ‘friend-zoned’ him? I’ve only met her a few times but think she’s not attracted and said she’s not looking for something maybe just friends. Not spoken to her for a few weeks but when I get back in contact I want more than friends....

Cheers!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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What’s the best advice you can give to guys looking to attract a girl who may have ‘friend-zoned’ him?
The best advice for a guy about a girl who may have friend-zoned him. Hmmmm.... oh that's easy.....

NEXT.


I’ve only met her a few times but think she’s not attracted and said she’s not looking for something maybe just friends.
Okay question......

How did the subject of what she may or may not be looking for come up in the first place? You must have said something to elicit that response from her.




Not spoken to her for a few weeks but when I get back in contact I want more than friends....
you want to be more than friends when you get back in contact. Well what have you been with her thus far? Have you shown any kind of Interest?

You know, you do not have the option of being zero or being nothing while continually being in a girl's presence. You either have to go for it or not. And if you decide to not make a play for a girl, generally, you get friend-zoned by DEFAULT.

And her saying "I'm not looking for something", that's woman-speak for "I'm not looking for ANYTHING.........WITH YOU."


You can go ahead make a play for her, but the fact that you've already been around her several times and have yet to make your interest known,plus the fact that she told you that she's not looking for anything,only friends, that kind of puts the odds against you.
 

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When a girl says friendzone, you didn't make a move fast enough to show your intentions. That's the type of girl you make a move as fast as you can.
 

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What’s the best advice you can give to guys looking to attract a girl who may have ‘friend-zoned’ him? I’ve only met her a few times but think she’s not attracted and said she’s not looking for something maybe just friends. Not spoken to her for a few weeks but when I get back in contact I want more than friends....

Cheers!
Stop wasting time thinking about her
 

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Ask her on a date. If she declines move on.
Make a move, if she pushes you back or pulls back, move on.

Invest in yourself. Improve Looks, money, and status. Get interesting hobbies. Improve social circle. Have a good time. Let the babes chase you.
 
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