"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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InVader

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What’s the best advice you can give to guys looking to attract a girl who may have ‘friend-zoned’ him? I’ve only met her a few times but think she’s not attracted and said she’s not looking for something maybe just friends. Not spoken to her for a few weeks but when I get back in contact I want more than friends....

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What’s the best advice you can give to guys looking to attract a girl who may have ‘friend-zoned’ him?
The best advice for a guy about a girl who may have friend-zoned him. Hmmmm.... oh that's easy.....

NEXT.


I’ve only met her a few times but think she’s not attracted and said she’s not looking for something maybe just friends.
Okay question......

How did the subject of what she may or may not be looking for come up in the first place? You must have said something to elicit that response from her.




Not spoken to her for a few weeks but when I get back in contact I want more than friends....
you want to be more than friends when you get back in contact. Well what have you been with her thus far? Have you shown any kind of Interest?

You know, you do not have the option of being zero or being nothing while continually being in a girl's presence. You either have to go for it or not. And if you decide to not make a play for a girl, generally, you get friend-zoned by DEFAULT.

And her saying "I'm not looking for something", that's woman-speak for "I'm not looking for ANYTHING.........WITH YOU."


You can go ahead make a play for her, but the fact that you've already been around her several times and have yet to make your interest known,plus the fact that she told you that she's not looking for anything,only friends, that kind of puts the odds against you.
 

strikerace13

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When a girl says friendzone, you didn't make a move fast enough to show your intentions. That's the type of girl you make a move as fast as you can.
 

marmel75

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What’s the best advice you can give to guys looking to attract a girl who may have ‘friend-zoned’ him? I’ve only met her a few times but think she’s not attracted and said she’s not looking for something maybe just friends. Not spoken to her for a few weeks but when I get back in contact I want more than friends....

Cheers!
Stop wasting time thinking about her
 

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Ask her on a date. If she declines move on.
Make a move, if she pushes you back or pulls back, move on.

Invest in yourself. Improve Looks, money, and status. Get interesting hobbies. Improve social circle. Have a good time. Let the babes chase you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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