"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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More party pix (no, they don't stop)

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Here's to last night. I'll do a side commentary along with some of them.


I don't know what Jen is doing in the right corner...
http://www.jbspencer.com/jen.jpg

Group shot... DJ looks hot down there in the left corner... and if my arms ever get as big as Nick's I'll die happy.
http://www.jbspencer.com/group2.jpg

Brandy...
http://www.jbspencer.com/branjer.jpg

I don't remember who this person was or what we talked about. The only thing I do remember is grabbing her boobs after the picture was taken.
http://www.jbspencer.com/dunno.jpg

Just noticed my hand is getting a little territorial on the right...
http://www.jbspencer.com/branjer2.jpg

Punk rock, anyone?
http://www.jbspencer.com/another.jpg

Yum. Just.. yum (no, her name isn't Yum). :p
http://www.jbspencer.com/dj.jpg

As we all know, racism is not allowed on this forum. However, it's up to you on how you view this picture of Nick being forced to sleep on the floor with the dog (at least I gave him a sleeping bag!)
http://www.jbspencer.com/nick.jpg
(this next one isn't from last night, but it's of Nick also - when we get drunk we do some weird sh*t)
http://www.jbspencer.com/nickhat.jpg
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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looks like a lot of good times and damn you seem to drink as much as I do.

cheers
 

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you look drunker than a bum diablo:) anyway, what about handing me jen's number? i swear, she's one of the hottest girls i ever seen in my whole life!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Looks like a good time.

But I don't see any WOMEN in the last couple pictures back at the apartment...what gives? :D
 

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Weird that Nick slept on the floor, seeing as he could probably kill anyone there :)
 

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Originally posted by squirrels
But I don't see any WOMEN in the last couple pictures back at the apartment...what gives? :D
Unfortunately I'm still with the parents...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Diablo i have to give you alot of props, because you are 100% shear evidence that looks do not matter. Average looks with hot girls = good personality, social proof, or lots of money.

Congratulations to you!
 

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Originally posted by tristan22
Diablo i have to give you alot of props, because you are 100% shear evidence that looks do not matter. Average looks with hot girls = good personality, social proof, or lots of money.

Congratulations to you!
that's a very nice thing to say:rolleyes:
 

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I don't care if it's nice or not, it's the truth. Not everyone is blessed with good looks. It's apparent he has something positive to offer or else he wouldn't be banging hot chicks.
 
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