"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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More party pix (no, they don't stop)

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Here's to last night. I'll do a side commentary along with some of them.


I don't know what Jen is doing in the right corner...
http://www.jbspencer.com/jen.jpg

Group shot... DJ looks hot down there in the left corner... and if my arms ever get as big as Nick's I'll die happy.
http://www.jbspencer.com/group2.jpg

Brandy...
http://www.jbspencer.com/branjer.jpg

I don't remember who this person was or what we talked about. The only thing I do remember is grabbing her boobs after the picture was taken.
http://www.jbspencer.com/dunno.jpg

Just noticed my hand is getting a little territorial on the right...
http://www.jbspencer.com/branjer2.jpg

Punk rock, anyone?
http://www.jbspencer.com/another.jpg

Yum. Just.. yum (no, her name isn't Yum). :p
http://www.jbspencer.com/dj.jpg

As we all know, racism is not allowed on this forum. However, it's up to you on how you view this picture of Nick being forced to sleep on the floor with the dog (at least I gave him a sleeping bag!)
http://www.jbspencer.com/nick.jpg
(this next one isn't from last night, but it's of Nick also - when we get drunk we do some weird sh*t)
http://www.jbspencer.com/nickhat.jpg
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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looks like a lot of good times and damn you seem to drink as much as I do.

cheers
 

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you look drunker than a bum diablo:) anyway, what about handing me jen's number? i swear, she's one of the hottest girls i ever seen in my whole life!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Looks like a good time.

But I don't see any WOMEN in the last couple pictures back at the apartment...what gives? :D
 

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Weird that Nick slept on the floor, seeing as he could probably kill anyone there :)
 

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Originally posted by squirrels
But I don't see any WOMEN in the last couple pictures back at the apartment...what gives? :D
Unfortunately I'm still with the parents...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Diablo i have to give you alot of props, because you are 100% shear evidence that looks do not matter. Average looks with hot girls = good personality, social proof, or lots of money.

Congratulations to you!
 

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Originally posted by tristan22
Diablo i have to give you alot of props, because you are 100% shear evidence that looks do not matter. Average looks with hot girls = good personality, social proof, or lots of money.

Congratulations to you!
that's a very nice thing to say:rolleyes:
 

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I don't care if it's nice or not, it's the truth. Not everyone is blessed with good looks. It's apparent he has something positive to offer or else he wouldn't be banging hot chicks.
 
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