"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Discussion forum is getting ridiculously over populated right now and the topics are turning around so fast it's hard to keep up and almost impossible to continue any single discussion.

If it could be split into a series of separate forums it might help disperse the traffic.

One idea I had is to create a specific help forum where users can post questions and receive answers on various dilemmas, while the discussion forum can continue to be used for general DJ related discussions.

Maybe we can have some kind of Field Report forum too, where the bootcamp journals, field and lay reports, and various autobiographical experiences can go.

I have no clue how difficult it is to add or alter the forums, so it may not be plausible, but it's just an idea.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Or maybe people should learn to use the Bible and the Search features so they don't HAVE to post a new thread every time. ;)
 
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i like the forum like this, i would rather it move to fast so i miss some posts (and if its a specific one oyu posted in you cna look at your posts to find it again) rather then move slow so i have to look at the same old post for 2 weeks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Jariel
I was hoping for a bigger font, but nevermind.
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MY FONT IS ENORMOUS.
 
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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
MY FONT IS ENORMOUS.
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MY FONT IS BOLD

edit:AND RED
 
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i have font envy... :(
 
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