"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Discussion forum is getting ridiculously over populated right now and the topics are turning around so fast it's hard to keep up and almost impossible to continue any single discussion.

If it could be split into a series of separate forums it might help disperse the traffic.

One idea I had is to create a specific help forum where users can post questions and receive answers on various dilemmas, while the discussion forum can continue to be used for general DJ related discussions.

Maybe we can have some kind of Field Report forum too, where the bootcamp journals, field and lay reports, and various autobiographical experiences can go.

I have no clue how difficult it is to add or alter the forums, so it may not be plausible, but it's just an idea.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Or maybe people should learn to use the Bible and the Search features so they don't HAVE to post a new thread every time. ;)
 
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i like the forum like this, i would rather it move to fast so i miss some posts (and if its a specific one oyu posted in you cna look at your posts to find it again) rather then move slow so i have to look at the same old post for 2 weeks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Jariel
I was hoping for a bigger font, but nevermind.
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MY FONT IS ENORMOUS.
 
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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
MY FONT IS ENORMOUS.
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MY FONT IS BOLD

edit:AND RED
 
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i have font envy... :(
 
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