"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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More Bullsh!t and A Really Big Headache...

amnbyrd

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Anyone who has read my last few posts on this girl Ive been going out with for the past month will have more incite on this. Anyways yesterday she txted me saying she thinks we shouldnt talk anymore and gave me some BS reason-shes told me that she doesnt let guys pay for her and the night b4 we were at the store and she got a bottle of water and I offered to pay though she said no-well yesterday she threw that in my face by saying I can't even pay for a bottle of water for her and that I shouldve known that when a girl says no she really means yes. That and she said that she doesnt want to have to tell me how she wants everything to be(though Im not a mindreader) I mean shes often sad about her grandfather her passed away last January so if I notice shes down I'll ask her though she never talks to me.(not much I can do to help if she cant talk to me). Anyways I was like alright thats fine, we dont have to be together but I want to be with you when you get and take ur pregnancy test. At first she was being a b!tch saying she doesnt need me and can do everything on her own. Well I talked to some friends and they said she thinks shes pregnant and shes late on her period. She told me if she hasnt had it by Monday then she'll take the test. But another thing is from talking to some friends of ours Ive heard soo much crap about her and basically how too faced she is and I dont want anything to do with her aside from if shes pregnant.
Guess Im just venting and needed some input/opinions. I guess all I can do for now is wait til Monday to see how things go.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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j0n024

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Yes you have mine as well, good luck hopefully she doesnt have a kid but what can you do. I think she is just venting sorta like what you are doing, I mean she seems to want to fight for everything like who the he11 fights for a bottle of water?! Good luck in the future man.
 

amnbyrd

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Well her period started yesterday so I guess shes not pregnant, though were not talking/dating anymore. Shes got her own sh!t to deal with-she txting me saying"if shes not with anyone then she can never get hurt again".
So Its whatever, I'll just start looking for some replacements. Will be kinda awkward though since were in the same dorm building but I guess as time goes by it'll get easier.
 

amnbyrd

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update: well things have been messed up ever since though last night she told me to come over her room and stay with her the night. We talked about some things and she said she loves me. Though despite that she said she doesnt want to be together since shes afraid of being hurt. before I left her room today she told me to call her later. I dont know how to go about things with her at this point since its kinda confusing since she cares but doesnt want to be together.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cretin

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Don't call her man.......let her call you. Go on about your business.
 
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