"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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More Bullsh!t and A Really Big Headache...

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amnbyrd

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Anyone who has read my last few posts on this girl Ive been going out with for the past month will have more incite on this. Anyways yesterday she txted me saying she thinks we shouldnt talk anymore and gave me some BS reason-shes told me that she doesnt let guys pay for her and the night b4 we were at the store and she got a bottle of water and I offered to pay though she said no-well yesterday she threw that in my face by saying I can't even pay for a bottle of water for her and that I shouldve known that when a girl says no she really means yes. That and she said that she doesnt want to have to tell me how she wants everything to be(though Im not a mindreader) I mean shes often sad about her grandfather her passed away last January so if I notice shes down I'll ask her though she never talks to me.(not much I can do to help if she cant talk to me). Anyways I was like alright thats fine, we dont have to be together but I want to be with you when you get and take ur pregnancy test. At first she was being a b!tch saying she doesnt need me and can do everything on her own. Well I talked to some friends and they said she thinks shes pregnant and shes late on her period. She told me if she hasnt had it by Monday then she'll take the test. But another thing is from talking to some friends of ours Ive heard soo much crap about her and basically how too faced she is and I dont want anything to do with her aside from if shes pregnant.
Guess Im just venting and needed some input/opinions. I guess all I can do for now is wait til Monday to see how things go.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes you have mine as well, good luck hopefully she doesnt have a kid but what can you do. I think she is just venting sorta like what you are doing, I mean she seems to want to fight for everything like who the he11 fights for a bottle of water?! Good luck in the future man.
 
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Well her period started yesterday so I guess shes not pregnant, though were not talking/dating anymore. Shes got her own sh!t to deal with-she txting me saying"if shes not with anyone then she can never get hurt again".
So Its whatever, I'll just start looking for some replacements. Will be kinda awkward though since were in the same dorm building but I guess as time goes by it'll get easier.
 
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update: well things have been messed up ever since though last night she told me to come over her room and stay with her the night. We talked about some things and she said she loves me. Though despite that she said she doesnt want to be together since shes afraid of being hurt. before I left her room today she told me to call her later. I dont know how to go about things with her at this point since its kinda confusing since she cares but doesnt want to be together.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't call her man.......let her call you. Go on about your business.
 
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