"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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More Bullsh!t and A Really Big Headache...

amnbyrd

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Anyone who has read my last few posts on this girl Ive been going out with for the past month will have more incite on this. Anyways yesterday she txted me saying she thinks we shouldnt talk anymore and gave me some BS reason-shes told me that she doesnt let guys pay for her and the night b4 we were at the store and she got a bottle of water and I offered to pay though she said no-well yesterday she threw that in my face by saying I can't even pay for a bottle of water for her and that I shouldve known that when a girl says no she really means yes. That and she said that she doesnt want to have to tell me how she wants everything to be(though Im not a mindreader) I mean shes often sad about her grandfather her passed away last January so if I notice shes down I'll ask her though she never talks to me.(not much I can do to help if she cant talk to me). Anyways I was like alright thats fine, we dont have to be together but I want to be with you when you get and take ur pregnancy test. At first she was being a b!tch saying she doesnt need me and can do everything on her own. Well I talked to some friends and they said she thinks shes pregnant and shes late on her period. She told me if she hasnt had it by Monday then she'll take the test. But another thing is from talking to some friends of ours Ive heard soo much crap about her and basically how too faced she is and I dont want anything to do with her aside from if shes pregnant.
Guess Im just venting and needed some input/opinions. I guess all I can do for now is wait til Monday to see how things go.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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j0n024

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Yes you have mine as well, good luck hopefully she doesnt have a kid but what can you do. I think she is just venting sorta like what you are doing, I mean she seems to want to fight for everything like who the he11 fights for a bottle of water?! Good luck in the future man.
 

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Well her period started yesterday so I guess shes not pregnant, though were not talking/dating anymore. Shes got her own sh!t to deal with-she txting me saying"if shes not with anyone then she can never get hurt again".
So Its whatever, I'll just start looking for some replacements. Will be kinda awkward though since were in the same dorm building but I guess as time goes by it'll get easier.
 

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update: well things have been messed up ever since though last night she told me to come over her room and stay with her the night. We talked about some things and she said she loves me. Though despite that she said she doesnt want to be together since shes afraid of being hurt. before I left her room today she told me to call her later. I dont know how to go about things with her at this point since its kinda confusing since she cares but doesnt want to be together.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't call her man.......let her call you. Go on about your business.
 
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