my girlfriend and i have a our one month "anniversary" real soon and im 90% sure she is getting me a gift for it. Im not sure if i should get her one too because i read you shouldn't cuz it'll make the one year anniversary less special... thing is we will both be in college in a year so we wont have a 1 year anniversary. so should i get her something small?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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- Thread starter Rampage
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
No, I'd tell her shes silly for even thinking of the 1 month anniversary as something special
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
just get her something it doesnt have to be to huge or anything. Even if she doesnt get you something, you atleast did.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
I dunno dude, a month anniversary isn't really something I would celebrate.
Don't actually get her anything. Have her over and cook her dinner.
I've found that cooking dinner is MUCH better than any gift, plus it usually leads to other things... yaddaymean?
Don't actually get her anything. Have her over and cook her dinner.
I've found that cooking dinner is MUCH better than any gift, plus it usually leads to other things... yaddaymean?