my girlfriend and i have a our one month "anniversary" real soon and im 90% sure she is getting me a gift for it. Im not sure if i should get her one too because i read you shouldn't cuz it'll make the one year anniversary less special... thing is we will both be in college in a year so we wont have a 1 year anniversary. so should i get her something small?
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No, I'd tell her shes silly for even thinking of the 1 month anniversary as something special
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
just get her something it doesnt have to be to huge or anything. Even if she doesnt get you something, you atleast did.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
I dunno dude, a month anniversary isn't really something I would celebrate.
Don't actually get her anything. Have her over and cook her dinner.
I've found that cooking dinner is MUCH better than any gift, plus it usually leads to other things... yaddaymean?
Don't actually get her anything. Have her over and cook her dinner.
I've found that cooking dinner is MUCH better than any gift, plus it usually leads to other things... yaddaymean?