Sup. How do you guys get your money to buy stuff, besides getting a job? For some reason, my mom forbade me from getting a part time job, which is pretty bs, and I can't think of any other way to get money. Any suggestions? Thx.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Well... money always comes from some form of work. Whether it being cashier, drug dealer, or theif. So you'll need a job.
If it's your mom that won't let you get a part time job and you need money, ask her for an allowance or to get paid doing household chores. If you already do chores without pay, it might be a little more difficult to get some cash out of it.
You can start mowing lawns or maybe a flexible casual job, rather than part-time.
You'll need to devote time and effort into whatever you do to get money.
If it's your mom that won't let you get a part time job and you need money, ask her for an allowance or to get paid doing household chores. If you already do chores without pay, it might be a little more difficult to get some cash out of it.
You can start mowing lawns or maybe a flexible casual job, rather than part-time.
You'll need to devote time and effort into whatever you do to get money.
skinnydart
Master Don Juan
you're not allowed to get a job?! My mom forced me to get one.
You dont' always have to do stuff that costs money. Just get together sometime to hang out, get a cup of coffee, stuff like that. It's not nessisary to have to make it a $50 evening with a dinner and a movie.
You dont' always have to do stuff that costs money. Just get together sometime to hang out, get a cup of coffee, stuff like that. It's not nessisary to have to make it a $50 evening with a dinner and a movie.
Lol, so did mine. She nagged me for months. Now I got a group interview this week and I must say I'm glad she nagged me because having a job has basically no downsides and I can't wait to start earning myself some money. My parents have never payed me an allowance because I don't do many chores around the house, but I hardly used to buy anything so it didn't really matter. But now I need money for new clothes since I want to improve my style, plus I'm finishing HS so I need money to pay for Uni, and for when I move out etc...
To the original poster, why one earth would she ban you from having a job? Does she want you to focus on school or something?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Tell her to give it to you since she wants to be a troll.
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
she probably wants u to focus on your studies.. my mom was like that when i was 16.
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
Moochy moochy.
Or gambling....it's MONDAY!!!! Somebody at your school is bound to take the game tonight.
Texas Hold'em is steadily gaining popularity at my school.