C00lAF
Senior Don Juan
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Ill go for the job and see how it will workout,my current social circle\life wont take me further than this point,im going to go with what will take me further
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Money or social life (friends)?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
There should be a balance. Personally, from my own observations, most people before they die ,they never think of "I didn't made enough money".
In the end , it's the memories with good friends and family which remains.
Social life is as important as making money but friends and family are more valuable.
In the end , it's the memories with good friends and family which remains.
Social life is as important as making money but friends and family are more valuable.
C00lAF
Senior Don Juan
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Im just aiming to become an independent man atp,mone will give me better memories,i wont be working forever
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
And how are you going to have more memories with money? Like going alone into a trip and when you come back tell to your mirror how good it was?
As long as you are not poor , money isn't an issue. If you have good friends , you can do many many awesome things cheap or for free.
I don't like this sentence but "You only live once" .
Meanwhile you can still have a lifetime schedule, you can not split money and social life into two different periods. For example you can't say , i won't sociallise for the next 5 years till i make enough money or i won't work for the next 5 years till i get hungry again. You don't know what comes tomorrow. That's why i said there should be a balance .