"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Money or social life (friends)?

C00lAF

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Money is more important. I focus on money pretty hard core.

The truth is, money gives you access to everything. This leads to a better social and sex life without even trying. Without money you are in a cardboard box living with rats and roaches. Having lots of inner beauty won't put food on the table or a roof over your head either. Friends and family will help you to a point, but if you become too inconvenient they will abandon you. So yeah. Money.
Ill go for the job and see how it will workout,my current social circle\life wont take me further than this point,im going to go with what will take me further
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There should be a balance. Personally, from my own observations, most people before they die ,they never think of "I didn't made enough money".
In the end , it's the memories with good friends and family which remains.

Social life is as important as making money but friends and family are more valuable.
 

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There should be a balance. Personally, from my own observations, most people before they die ,they never think of "I didn't made enough money".
In the end , it's the memories with good friends and family which remains.

Social life is as important as making money but friends and family are more valuable.
Im just aiming to become an independent man atp,mone will give me better memories,i wont be working forever
 

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Im just aiming to become an independent man atp,mone will give me better memories,i wont be working forever
And how are you going to have more memories with money? Like going alone into a trip and when you come back tell to your mirror how good it was?
As long as you are not poor , money isn't an issue. If you have good friends , you can do many many awesome things cheap or for free.
I don't like this sentence but "You only live once" .

Meanwhile you can still have a lifetime schedule, you can not split money and social life into two different periods. For example you can't say , i won't sociallise for the next 5 years till i make enough money or i won't work for the next 5 years till i get hungry again. You don't know what comes tomorrow. That's why i said there should be a balance .
 
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