"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Money or social life (friends)?

C00lAF

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Money is more important. I focus on money pretty hard core.

The truth is, money gives you access to everything. This leads to a better social and sex life without even trying. Without money you are in a cardboard box living with rats and roaches. Having lots of inner beauty won't put food on the table or a roof over your head either. Friends and family will help you to a point, but if you become too inconvenient they will abandon you. So yeah. Money.
Ill go for the job and see how it will workout,my current social circle\life wont take me further than this point,im going to go with what will take me further
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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There should be a balance. Personally, from my own observations, most people before they die ,they never think of "I didn't made enough money".
In the end , it's the memories with good friends and family which remains.

Social life is as important as making money but friends and family are more valuable.
 

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There should be a balance. Personally, from my own observations, most people before they die ,they never think of "I didn't made enough money".
In the end , it's the memories with good friends and family which remains.

Social life is as important as making money but friends and family are more valuable.
Im just aiming to become an independent man atp,mone will give me better memories,i wont be working forever
 

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Im just aiming to become an independent man atp,mone will give me better memories,i wont be working forever
And how are you going to have more memories with money? Like going alone into a trip and when you come back tell to your mirror how good it was?
As long as you are not poor , money isn't an issue. If you have good friends , you can do many many awesome things cheap or for free.
I don't like this sentence but "You only live once" .

Meanwhile you can still have a lifetime schedule, you can not split money and social life into two different periods. For example you can't say , i won't sociallise for the next 5 years till i make enough money or i won't work for the next 5 years till i get hungry again. You don't know what comes tomorrow. That's why i said there should be a balance .
 
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