C00lAF
Senior Don Juan
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Ill go for the job and see how it will workout,my current social circle\life wont take me further than this point,im going to go with what will take me further
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Money or social life (friends)?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
There should be a balance. Personally, from my own observations, most people before they die ,they never think of "I didn't made enough money".
In the end , it's the memories with good friends and family which remains.
Social life is as important as making money but friends and family are more valuable.
In the end , it's the memories with good friends and family which remains.
Social life is as important as making money but friends and family are more valuable.
C00lAF
Senior Don Juan
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Im just aiming to become an independent man atp,mone will give me better memories,i wont be working forever
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
And how are you going to have more memories with money? Like going alone into a trip and when you come back tell to your mirror how good it was?
As long as you are not poor , money isn't an issue. If you have good friends , you can do many many awesome things cheap or for free.
I don't like this sentence but "You only live once" .
Meanwhile you can still have a lifetime schedule, you can not split money and social life into two different periods. For example you can't say , i won't sociallise for the next 5 years till i make enough money or i won't work for the next 5 years till i get hungry again. You don't know what comes tomorrow. That's why i said there should be a balance .