C00lAF
Senior Don Juan
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Ill go for the job and see how it will workout,my current social circle\life wont take me further than this point,im going to go with what will take me further
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Money or social life (friends)?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
There should be a balance. Personally, from my own observations, most people before they die ,they never think of "I didn't made enough money".
In the end , it's the memories with good friends and family which remains.
Social life is as important as making money but friends and family are more valuable.
In the end , it's the memories with good friends and family which remains.
Social life is as important as making money but friends and family are more valuable.
C00lAF
Senior Don Juan
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Im just aiming to become an independent man atp,mone will give me better memories,i wont be working forever
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
And how are you going to have more memories with money? Like going alone into a trip and when you come back tell to your mirror how good it was?
As long as you are not poor , money isn't an issue. If you have good friends , you can do many many awesome things cheap or for free.
I don't like this sentence but "You only live once" .
Meanwhile you can still have a lifetime schedule, you can not split money and social life into two different periods. For example you can't say , i won't sociallise for the next 5 years till i make enough money or i won't work for the next 5 years till i get hungry again. You don't know what comes tomorrow. That's why i said there should be a balance .