Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Because you blow it all on wh0res. That's your prerogative, but don't act like it's the definition of success.I am a top earner though not a millionaire
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Because you blow it all on wh0res. That's your prerogative, but don't act like it's the definition of success.I am a top earner though not a millionaire
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You win idiot of the year honors. Congratulations moron.Agreed. I have no money, and like 5 plates at the moment.
Furthermore, even if that was not the case, I'd rather be poor and alone than have a beautiful wife who was only with me for my money. I remember the guys from law school I knew - they were all dateless wonders, most of them virgins in their early 20's. Then as soon as they passed the bar and got a good job, it seemed like every one of them suddenly had a very pretty wife, who popped out a kid and then lived a life of leisure in a giant house, while hubby worked 80 hours a week to pay for it all. Fvck that.
I appreciate the advice, but honestly I have almost no clue what you are talking about.This is why building wealth and getting your finances in order should be TOP PRIORITY.
- Almost 80% of Americans are living paycheck-to-paycheck and about 50% don't have enough savings or emergency resources to cover a damn $400 emergency.
- All the while, cost of living/inflation is going up, finding good jobs is becoming more difficult, jobs are requiring MORE education (a master's will be required for a desk job soon) while education continues to sky rocket in costs.
And you guys are sitting on this damn forum talking about money doesn't matter, because some stupid bytch svcked your broke dyck last night??
Think about your damn freedom, your peace, and your happiness. To anybody that says MONEY doesn't buy happiness, you are wrong. You need MONEY to eat, for shelter, for clothing, to maintain your health, etc. Last I checked, being able to eat, have clothes on your back, have shelter, and be in good health were the foundations for happiness!
ITDG you are at the perfect age to start investing! Let me give you some quick numbers, you are about 18 years old correct? In 32 years you will be 50, if over the next 32 years you put away $5,000 per year for 32 years, using a balance of 65% in S&P Index Fund and 35% in Bonds for a collective average of 7% CAGR, you will have over $630,000 at age 50 in your Index Fund portfolio alone.
Fvck this insane shyt about money or looks don't matter. Fix your Looks, your Finances, AND your Personality/Inner Game shyt so you can be the BEST version of yourself and PROTECT yourself from having to live paycheck-to-paycheck.
Did she tell him the baby "came a month early"?When I was 19, I knocked a woman up. Realizing that I was never going to provide, she quickly leeched on to a stable guy and froze me out - leading him to think the kid was/is his
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
First off, this is a seduction site, so obviously the main topic here is going to be seduction.Don Juan forum - discussions 99,938
Wealth and Success forum - discussions. 280
BB I'm not miserableBecause you blow it all on wh0res. That's your prerogative, but don't act like it's the definition of success.
Good. I don't want you to be. You just seem pissed off a lot.BB I'm not miserable.
.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dawg, evey one be po deez dayz. Go wit da flowz! You dig?i turned 25 on the weekend and was doing some self reflecting
in the last 3 years my financial situation has been dire despite gaining 2 job promotions i just cant retain any type of personal wealth ,im literally trapped living with my parents, ive got a ton of debt my car is over 10 years old , i spend every penny monthly
the strange thing is , this hasn't handicapped me with women i every woman ive wanted iv'e got and ive never spent much on them, my current main plate who is on her way to attaining GF status would tick most guys boxes
obviously i realise i need to change my financial situation drastically for personal benefit more than anything
but for anyone worrying about having money to try and impress women , the answer is simple
DONT , once you start being the type of guy they want to fvck money doesn't seem to really matter
Yes, and in that grey, or should I say that colorful area, before the world has been sundered in two, lies the balanced woman looking for both a sensible and sexy guy. Sadly it seems she has become the exceptional woman today.My guess is women are a lot more black and white in their analysis of male utility than we would care to admit, in terms of relationship material vs pure sex material. The grey area is sexual attraction where a more balanced guy who knows game, looks good, etc. Usually this is the target for LTRs until some of the women become truly craven and seek only money later in life.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That. Anybody considered that confidence still is the key? Most of the confidence Is the basis to make Money and be sucessfull. People here tend to think getting is the key to women. If they only are rich but have no confidence around women and no game they will attract no women apart from gold diggers.women do not need to see you have money in order to want you
Maybe, but I still think "confidence" as an attraction factor is exagerrated. I don't think women would recognize actual confidence if it bit them on the @ss. Women appreciate bold action and success.If they only are rich but have no confidence around women and no game they will attract no women apart from gold diggers.
You mean BigNeil is wrong and you don't need to flash money at them to get them to want to be around?? Who knew...loli turned 25 on the weekend and was doing some self reflecting
in the last 3 years my financial situation has been dire despite gaining 2 job promotions i just cant retain any type of personal wealth ,im literally trapped living with my parents, ive got a ton of debt my car is over 10 years old , i spend every penny monthly
the strange thing is , this hasn't handicapped me with women i every woman ive wanted iv'e got and ive never spent much on them, my current main plate who is on her way to attaining GF status would tick most guys boxes
obviously i realise i need to change my financial situation drastically for personal benefit more than anything
but for anyone worrying about having money to try and impress women , the answer is simple
DONT , once you start being the type of guy they want to fvck money doesn't seem to really matter
I agree...he should go work in education where they try to throw money at kids to fix problems...meanwhile the US falls further and further behind in all the key educational metrics every year...maybe if they spend 100K per kid per year we'd improve instead of only 20K...lmaoHe also fails to take into account that good parenting is not how much money you throw at a kid and that raising a kid is so expensive because of the as far as I know 3rd world social policies his country has that people like him are proud of, and so stating that it "costs 750 000$" to raise a kid is ridiculous.
But dude we are talking about this current market of women, age 18 - 40, who can care less about the CHARACTER of a guy. Please don't use how this current market of women distributes their pvssy as a barometer for "manhood" or "doing what's right".the point i was trying to make was that despite all this it hasn't seemed to impair me with the women in my life
women do not need to see you have money in order to want you
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.