"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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money does not make the man

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You could positionally trade the NDX/QQQ, by waiting for the breakthrough highs (like now), followed by the big dip, buy and hold to resistance. You can't time these dips and retrace. Might be 6 mos; might be 6 yrs.

I'd rather lend hard money at 12% per annum + 2pts + other "fees" totaling 15%+ per year, collateralized against R/E. Or even better, buy a short sale at 40% discount or apt building (5 units+) at a 5% net cap with rent-stabilized tenants who could be bought out with apts placed back at market rent (200% higher in most cases than the rent-stabilized rent), increasing the commercial value to instant 100%+ over a 12-18 month time frame (offers, buyouts, renovation). Much stronger, securer investment vehicles than the stock market, sitting here with my thumb in my mouth waiting for the next home run based on past performance which is in no way indicative of future performance.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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