"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mom is finding me girls...would you accept that?

Babnik

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Well, I guess it makes a difference that I grew up in the Ukraine and I need a girl who has certain things about her for me to respect her. I like caring ones, FAMILY once for a LTR. Otherwise its just sex.

Thing is...my mother is very close to me and she knows what I am looking for and she is like....trying to hook me up with girls!

Would you accept that? Your own mother finding girls for you?
I feel odd about this but she is doing a good job sometimes!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Babnik said:
Well, I guess it makes a difference that I grew up in the Ukraine and I need a girl who has certain things about her for me to respect her. I like caring ones, FAMILY once for a LTR. Otherwise its just sex.

Thing is...my mother is very close to me and she knows what I am looking for and she is like....trying to hook me up with girls!

Would you accept that? Your own mother finding girls for you?
I feel odd about this but she is doing a good job sometimes!
There you go, women are good for other thing's than just sex, example: your mum. End of story.

And yes, accept it! Some woman at my office once set me up for a date with her daughter, just for fun. And we had a great time ;)
 

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Babnik said:
Would you accept that? Your own mother finding girls for you? I feel odd about this but she is doing a good job sometimes!
You let you mom pick up women for you? heck I wouldn't even let my mom to pick my own cloths lol To be honest when I was younger I did let my mother to try set me up with girls but they were all plain jane's with great personalities :down:

All kidding aside there are many outlets to meet women and if your mom is one outlet out of many then its a good thing. Just don't make it your only outlet and I hope that you are also doing some sarging by yourself and you are not rolling with your mom to the clubs/bars as your wingwoman lol.
 

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That's how its done in Idian. Accept it. Its just like having four eyes searching for something. Your mom finds you one and you don't like her, drop her. Simple.
 
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My mom is a devout born-again Christian and wants me to find the right girl in my life to eventually marry - but, it's very, very difficult to find. Her influence is to keep me away from pre-maritial sex and getting involved with the wrong categories of women (i.e. non-Christians, or non-serious nominal Christians, single mothers, women who are older than I am, non-virgins, people who are not into wierd stuff, etc....) and has very high uncompromising standards. She would never cooperate or allow a hook-up, and would in fact kick me out of the house if I went along with that.

My dad shares the same views, but his are more secularised. My dad also wouldn't want me to have sex with any common slvt because of AIDS's and STD'S around. Again, all it takes is one broken condom, one mis-judgement somewhere, and just ONE WRONG sex act could mean you are messed up for life.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If she knows what you like, this is your case of "Mother knows best"
 

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Luke Skywalker said:
Again, all it takes is one broken condom, one mis-judgement somewhere, and just ONE WRONG sex act could mean you are messed up for life.

You could also trip on the sidewalk, fall on a rock and cripple yourself, while a bus full of orphans swerves out of the way and crashes into a wedding party and explodes killing the newly weds.

The point I was trying to exagerate is if you dont take chances, you'll never live.
 

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i worry about sins when im in the game too. I dont wanna damn myself just for sex.
 

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dont let your mom choose your women cuz your capable of doing it by yourself iight.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just as for forgiveness before, during, or after the act and you're forgiven..lol...that's what the bible says...pretty simple..lol!
 

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My mom set me up, and i thought she was going to be fugly and she was AWSOME!!!! but i was a AFC so it didnt work out...
 
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