"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mom is finding me girls...would you accept that?

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Well, I guess it makes a difference that I grew up in the Ukraine and I need a girl who has certain things about her for me to respect her. I like caring ones, FAMILY once for a LTR. Otherwise its just sex.

Thing is...my mother is very close to me and she knows what I am looking for and she is like....trying to hook me up with girls!

Would you accept that? Your own mother finding girls for you?
I feel odd about this but she is doing a good job sometimes!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Babnik said:
Well, I guess it makes a difference that I grew up in the Ukraine and I need a girl who has certain things about her for me to respect her. I like caring ones, FAMILY once for a LTR. Otherwise its just sex.

Thing is...my mother is very close to me and she knows what I am looking for and she is like....trying to hook me up with girls!

Would you accept that? Your own mother finding girls for you?
I feel odd about this but she is doing a good job sometimes!
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There you go, women are good for other thing's than just sex, example: your mum. End of story.

And yes, accept it! Some woman at my office once set me up for a date with her daughter, just for fun. And we had a great time ;)
 
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Would you accept that? Your own mother finding girls for you? I feel odd about this but she is doing a good job sometimes!
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You let you mom pick up women for you? heck I wouldn't even let my mom to pick my own cloths lol To be honest when I was younger I did let my mother to try set me up with girls but they were all plain jane's with great personalities :down:

All kidding aside there are many outlets to meet women and if your mom is one outlet out of many then its a good thing. Just don't make it your only outlet and I hope that you are also doing some sarging by yourself and you are not rolling with your mom to the clubs/bars as your wingwoman lol.
 
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That's how its done in Idian. Accept it. Its just like having four eyes searching for something. Your mom finds you one and you don't like her, drop her. Simple.
 
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My mom is a devout born-again Christian and wants me to find the right girl in my life to eventually marry - but, it's very, very difficult to find. Her influence is to keep me away from pre-maritial sex and getting involved with the wrong categories of women (i.e. non-Christians, or non-serious nominal Christians, single mothers, women who are older than I am, non-virgins, people who are not into wierd stuff, etc....) and has very high uncompromising standards. She would never cooperate or allow a hook-up, and would in fact kick me out of the house if I went along with that.

My dad shares the same views, but his are more secularised. My dad also wouldn't want me to have sex with any common slvt because of AIDS's and STD'S around. Again, all it takes is one broken condom, one mis-judgement somewhere, and just ONE WRONG sex act could mean you are messed up for life.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If she knows what you like, this is your case of "Mother knows best"
 
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Luke Skywalker said:
Again, all it takes is one broken condom, one mis-judgement somewhere, and just ONE WRONG sex act could mean you are messed up for life.
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You could also trip on the sidewalk, fall on a rock and cripple yourself, while a bus full of orphans swerves out of the way and crashes into a wedding party and explodes killing the newly weds.

The point I was trying to exagerate is if you dont take chances, you'll never live.
 
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i worry about sins when im in the game too. I dont wanna damn myself just for sex.
 
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dont let your mom choose your women cuz your capable of doing it by yourself iight.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just as for forgiveness before, during, or after the act and you're forgiven..lol...that's what the bible says...pretty simple..lol!
 
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My mom set me up, and i thought she was going to be fugly and she was AWSOME!!!! but i was a AFC so it didnt work out...
 
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