"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mom is finding me girls...would you accept that?

Babnik

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Well, I guess it makes a difference that I grew up in the Ukraine and I need a girl who has certain things about her for me to respect her. I like caring ones, FAMILY once for a LTR. Otherwise its just sex.

Thing is...my mother is very close to me and she knows what I am looking for and she is like....trying to hook me up with girls!

Would you accept that? Your own mother finding girls for you?
I feel odd about this but she is doing a good job sometimes!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In_the_Wild

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Babnik said:
Well, I guess it makes a difference that I grew up in the Ukraine and I need a girl who has certain things about her for me to respect her. I like caring ones, FAMILY once for a LTR. Otherwise its just sex.

Thing is...my mother is very close to me and she knows what I am looking for and she is like....trying to hook me up with girls!

Would you accept that? Your own mother finding girls for you?
I feel odd about this but she is doing a good job sometimes!
There you go, women are good for other thing's than just sex, example: your mum. End of story.

And yes, accept it! Some woman at my office once set me up for a date with her daughter, just for fun. And we had a great time ;)
 

DJDamage

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Babnik said:
Would you accept that? Your own mother finding girls for you? I feel odd about this but she is doing a good job sometimes!
You let you mom pick up women for you? heck I wouldn't even let my mom to pick my own cloths lol To be honest when I was younger I did let my mother to try set me up with girls but they were all plain jane's with great personalities :down:

All kidding aside there are many outlets to meet women and if your mom is one outlet out of many then its a good thing. Just don't make it your only outlet and I hope that you are also doing some sarging by yourself and you are not rolling with your mom to the clubs/bars as your wingwoman lol.
 

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That's how its done in Idian. Accept it. Its just like having four eyes searching for something. Your mom finds you one and you don't like her, drop her. Simple.
 
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My mom is a devout born-again Christian and wants me to find the right girl in my life to eventually marry - but, it's very, very difficult to find. Her influence is to keep me away from pre-maritial sex and getting involved with the wrong categories of women (i.e. non-Christians, or non-serious nominal Christians, single mothers, women who are older than I am, non-virgins, people who are not into wierd stuff, etc....) and has very high uncompromising standards. She would never cooperate or allow a hook-up, and would in fact kick me out of the house if I went along with that.

My dad shares the same views, but his are more secularised. My dad also wouldn't want me to have sex with any common slvt because of AIDS's and STD'S around. Again, all it takes is one broken condom, one mis-judgement somewhere, and just ONE WRONG sex act could mean you are messed up for life.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Rebound Material

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If she knows what you like, this is your case of "Mother knows best"
 

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Luke Skywalker said:
Again, all it takes is one broken condom, one mis-judgement somewhere, and just ONE WRONG sex act could mean you are messed up for life.

You could also trip on the sidewalk, fall on a rock and cripple yourself, while a bus full of orphans swerves out of the way and crashes into a wedding party and explodes killing the newly weds.

The point I was trying to exagerate is if you dont take chances, you'll never live.
 

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i worry about sins when im in the game too. I dont wanna damn myself just for sex.
 

pornstar88

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dont let your mom choose your women cuz your capable of doing it by yourself iight.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just as for forgiveness before, during, or after the act and you're forgiven..lol...that's what the bible says...pretty simple..lol!
 

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My mom set me up, and i thought she was going to be fugly and she was AWSOME!!!! but i was a AFC so it didnt work out...
 
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