You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Have you been with a hooker before AFC Savior?AFC Savior said:
that is fvcking sick..AFC Savior said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Luke Skywalker said:
How was that like?Dongfu said:M y dad took me on a surf trip to Bali to get laid when I was 14. Was that wrong. Am I somehow traumatized by the situation?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It was great. On the way from the cab to the hotel room, two half naked Javanese girls were whistling at me from the pool. I ended up sleeping with both of them a couple hours later, without having to pay. I did end up checking some hookers later in the trip. They were only $12 U.S.Luke Skywalker said:
Point? You can get an STD from anyone unless she's a virgin. (eg. If a virgin girl just went once with a guy who has an STD then it's the same as if she's a prostitute with the same diseases. Since most girls are non-virgins, then anyone can have an STD and there is no greater risk going with a hooker)Vladimir Horowitz said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Yeah, you cant trust what people say all the time.LostAndConfused said:
Because it's more rewarding to not pay, to make it happen with your skills. I should mention that in general, the hookers in bali are often a last resort, after you went to all the clubs and tried your best to hook up with a non-hooker. If it comes down to it, you can grab a hooker at the end of the night. It usually doesnt come down to it.Stéphane said: