Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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MackJr

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Moderators,

There have been a number of posts recently from religious types trying to tell people to "come get help", and presenting sex and sexuality in a bad light.

A DJ is going to have sex at some point in time, hopefully multiple times to different people. So these "help" posts are essentially anti-DJ. Can you make them against the rules?

I could go around marking them all for moderation, but I think that would ultimately tick you off, so I'm just saying it in a general sense. I'm sure you've seen them and know what I'm talking about.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sstype

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there is more to life than porn and whining about "stealth posters"
 

sstype

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you are just mad because I said porn was bad. Porn is totally different from sex. I am all for the real thing, but too many guys here use porn as a substitute to getting the real deal. Thats why I encourage all DJ's to quit the porn with certain tools if necessary.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ_in_making

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I'll pray for all of you. :)
 

Boner da Stoner

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KarmaSutra is one of them!!! Let's burn Karma!!!

Lets make a list of those who afflict against our cause!!

Carry the DJ bible with you everywhere you go, for it contains knowledge beyond the ages, it is for the now!!! We must forget about the past and burn it, for it is evil!!!!

I wonder how many thousands of years have been destroyed becfause of that type of thinking?
 

thederekeffect1

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
KarmaSutra is one of them!!! Let's burn Karma!!!

Lets make a list of those who afflict against our cause!!

Carry the DJ bible with you everywhere you go, for it contains knowledge beyond the ages, it is for the now!!! We must forget about the past and burn it, for it is evil!!!!

I wonder how many thousands of years have been destroyed becfause of that type of thinking?
Well, if we're going to do that we need a new 10 commandments.

Commandment #1: Thou shalt have sex with as many neighbors wifes as possible during one lifetime.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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